Is my girlfriend controlling/emotionally abusive...?

Seems like an easy one. Break up and take some lessons in spotting red flags from this one.

I'm a man, 23 years old. My girlfriend is 21.
I've been with her for 15 months. Things were great for the first few months -- that was, until I found out the full extent of her beliefs. For context, we're both Christian, but she comes from a *much* more fundamentalist branch of the Church which thinks that the Bible describes the past literally. She believes that God made the world in 7 literal days around 6,000 years ago, evolution is a lie, and homosexuality is a sin. Not only that - she's said that the man she'll eventually marry must share all these beliefs. She's sort of implicitly given me an ultimatum, that unless I adopt these ideas I can't be the one for her. She didn't make this clear until around 5 months into dating.
I've talked with her so many times about it and there's simply zero room for compromise or middle ground. I tried explaining that the 7 days could represent millions of years, etc but she has never budged - I have to believe every detail exactly as she does. She's begun to pray for God to "make me into a Godly gentleman for her" (this is in front of me while I'm sitting next to her).
Another big issue is what I believe might be controlling behavior. I'm a big film buff, and she's always saying that certain movies with sex, nudity or homosexual themes bother her. Last Summer I wanted to go to the cinema to watch the movie "Carol" (on my own). When I got into town she texted me saying, "The movie kinda bothers me" and then explained that we shouldn't watch films that portray homosexuality in a positive light so we can "keep a pure mind". She'd known for days I wanted to see this movie and gave no indication that she'd have an issue so this caught me very off-guard and I was in a bit of a tight spot. Not wanting to cause conflict, I turned round and went back home. I know, I'm stupid.
There are certain other things I've done that have bothered her, which I believe are VERY normal things that millions of people do. For example, I went to Notting Hill Carnival (in London, we're in England) with two uni friends last summer. It wasn't till weeks later my girlfriend tells me it really bothered her cause "that's a place single people go to to look at girls in skimpy clothing" and "that's the kinda event we should've gone to together if we were gonna get married." She was also really bothered when I briefly met a Hollywood actress at the London Film Festival last year (I asked her a question at her Q+A event). My girlfriend said, "I always put all my energy into you so it bothered me when you used some of your energy on another woman" (??). I still have no idea what she meant. She's (apparently) OK with me having female friends but not OK with me having a 30-second conversation with a Hollywood actress who's twice my age and married with kids? I was made to feel really guilty for doing something...totally normal? Right?
I know you're probably reading this thinking, "Why are you in a relationship with this person?" and that I'm an idiot. Maybe you're right. I was just so smitten early on, it made it harder to consider breaking it off once I was "in deep" learning about the full extent of her beliefs. It doesn't help that this is the first time a girl was ever interested in me beyond friendship.
Sorry for the vent. I just really wanted to talk to someone about this relationship. I'm feeling very overwhelmed with it right now.
TLDR - Dating 15 months. She’s a fundamentalist Christian, insists I share her strict beliefs (literal Bible, anti-evolution, anti-LGBTQ+). No compromise, prays for me to change. Criticizes movies, events, and harmless interaction with a female celebrity. First relationship, I feel stuck but overwhelmed by red flags.

"I always put all my energy into you so it bothered me when you used some of your energy on another woman" (??). Istill have no idea what she meant. She's (apparently) OK with me having female friends but not OK with me having a 30-second conversation with a Hollywood actress who's twice my age and married with kids? I was made to feel really guilty for doing something...totally normal?”
you need to speak with each other and come to an understanding, you both seem to be poor communicators.

On the contrary, she seems to be an excellent communicator.
She has expressed her views on things that are important to her in ways that the original poster can understand.
And she's listened to what the original poster has to say on these things.
And then instead of getting in to a heated row with him about their disagreements, she's started praying, right next to him.
The original poster may well be an excellent communicator too.
He's listened to and understands what she is saying.
He's expressed his views in a way that she has understood when he's disagreed with her.
He hasn't got into a heated row with her. He hasn't blown his top (as far as we know).
It's totally fine if the understanding is one of the original poster setting the frame of:
"I'm not perfect. I never claim to be. Nobody's perfect. I am however confident that I'm better than most men. I do love you. Very much. And accept you as you are."
A valid tactic he could use, is to go to a few of her church meetings / services with her. It's inevitable that there will be huge hypocrites at her church. After the meeting he should allow her to air her thoughts on these hypocrites.
In this way he'd be undermining her faith in the gentlest possible way. Whilst also adhering to the teachings of Christ in judging trees by the fruits that they bear.
And also making a point in an indirect way about what's more important, the inner character of the man, or the outward faith / virtue signalling traits of the man?
It's easy to come across as more angelic than any man she's ever met - in several respects. Whilst also having "an edge".

It's easier for you if you tolerate and respect the religious beliefs of your partner.
It's easier if you don't make a mountain out of the molehill of your religious differences.
You and her have far more in common than you have differences when it comes to religion.
Imagine a Venn diagram of yours and her religious beliefs. It would be 2 almost totally overlapping circles. With only the smallest areas outside the circle.
What does it matter to your day to day life whether the opening chapter of Genesis is literally true or not?
It doesn't matter one bit. It happened way before you were born. And it has no bearing whatsoever on your day to day life.
It is actually easy to be extremely tolerant of her views on Genesis. It is easy for you to tell her that she could be right. Because that's the truth. She COULD be right.
You being extremely tolerant on this Genesis issue and you not making a mountain out of it is a prime example of how you can make your life easy, whilst being more angelic than the vast majority of men out there.
It's complete nonsense that your relationship / marriage with her wouldn't work if you don't literally believe in Genesis.
2 people can have the most magical and amazing marriage whilst disagreeing on far bigger and far more important religious points than this.
If you are overall an attractive enough man (which you can be by displaying large amounts of mental and emotional strength) then your girlfriend and her parents will accept you willingly enough. Even though you're not "perfect" in some respects.
If you are not overall attractive enough (by displaying mental and emotional weakness) then they will pick on any excuse to blow you off.
BTW mental and emotional strength doesn't involve you putting on some tough guy act. It involves you maintaining a rock solid good mood in the face of stress, including conflict and disagreements. You are already largely there in demonstrating this to her, because you've never had a heated argument with her. Whereas most men would have done by now.

So here’s the thing - I agree with all of this. It absolutely makes no difference over what period of time the world was made. But it doesn’t matter because she doesn’t see it that way - there’s nothing anyone can say or do that will change her view that it’s essential her partner takes the Bible word for word.

I'm a man, 23 years old. My girlfriend is 21.
I've been with her for 15 months. Things were great for the first few months -- that was, until I found out the full extent of her beliefs. For context, we're both Christian, but she comes from a *much* more fundamentalist branch of the Church which thinks that the Bible describes the past literally. She believes that God made the world in 7 literal days around 6,000 years ago, evolution is a lie, and homosexuality is a sin. Not only that - she's said that the man she'll eventually marry must share all these beliefs. She's sort of implicitly given me an ultimatum, that unless I adopt these ideas I can't be the one for her. She didn't make this clear until around 5 months into dating.
I've talked with her so many times about it and there's simply zero room for compromise or middle ground. I tried explaining that the 7 days could represent millions of years, etc but she has never budged - I have to believe every detail exactly as she does. She's begun to pray for God to "make me into a Godly gentleman for her" (this is in front of me while I'm sitting next to her).
Another big issue is what I believe might be controlling behavior. I'm a big film buff, and she's always saying that certain movies with sex, nudity or homosexual themes bother her. Last Summer I wanted to go to the cinema to watch the movie "Carol" (on my own). When I got into town she texted me saying, "The movie kinda bothers me" and then explained that we shouldn't watch films that portray homosexuality in a positive light so we can "keep a pure mind". She'd known for days I wanted to see this movie and gave no indication that she'd have an issue so this caught me very off-guard and I was in a bit of a tight spot. Not wanting to cause conflict, I turned round and went back home. I know, I'm stupid.
There are certain other things I've done that have bothered her, which I believe are VERY normal things that millions of people do. For example, I went to Notting Hill Carnival (in London, we're in England) with two uni friends last summer. It wasn't till weeks later my girlfriend tells me it really bothered her cause "that's a place single people go to to look at girls in skimpy clothing" and "that's the kinda event we should've gone to together if we were gonna get married." She was also really bothered when I briefly met a Hollywood actress at the London Film Festival last year (I asked her a question at her Q+A event). My girlfriend said, "I always put all my energy into you so it bothered me when you used some of your energy on another woman" (??). I still have no idea what she meant. She's (apparently) OK with me having female friends but not OK with me having a 30-second conversation with a Hollywood actress who's twice my age and married with kids? I was made to feel really guilty for doing something...totally normal? Right?
I know you're probably reading this thinking, "Why are you in a relationship with this person?" and that I'm an idiot. Maybe you're right. I was just so smitten early on, it made it harder to consider breaking it off once I was "in deep" learning about the full extent of her beliefs. It doesn't help that this is the first time a girl was ever interested in me beyond friendship.
Sorry for the vent. I just really wanted to talk to someone about this relationship. I'm feeling very overwhelmed with it right now.
TLDR - Dating 15 months. She’s a fundamentalist Christian, insists I share her strict beliefs (literal Bible, anti-evolution, anti-LGBTQ+). No compromise, prays for me to change. Criticizes movies, events, and harmless interaction with a female celebrity. First relationship, I feel stuck but overwhelmed by red flags.