Is it strange that I (18f) am dating my boyfriend (23m)

I started going out with my boyfriend(22m) about two months ago. It’s been great we get along splendid and there’s seems to be no issues with us. However, how we met was through my highschool band. He was a coach over my section all four years. We didn’t start hanging out or talking as formed until months after I had graduated and turned 18. Personally, I don’t see any problem with it. We’re both adults and can make decisions for ourselves. However, some people in my boyfriend’s life are very open about how they feel towards the age difference. We are open and talk about it when he needs. But he still occasionally feels like a creeper.

I started going out with my boyfriend(22m) about two months ago. It’s been great we get along splendid and there’s seems to be no issues with us. However, how we met was through my highschool band. He was a coach over my section all four years. We didn’t start hanging out or talking as formed until months after I had graduated and turned 18. Personally, I don’t see any problem with it. We’re both adults and can make decisions for ourselves. However, some people in my boyfriend’s life are very open about how they feel towards the age difference. We are open and talk about it when he needs. But he still occasionally feels like a creeper.

I started going out with my boyfriend(22m) about two months ago. It’s been great we get along splendid and there’s seems to be no issues with us. However, how we met was through my highschool band. He was a coach over my section all four years. We didn’t start hanging out or talking as formed until months after I had graduated and turned 18. Personally, I don’t see any problem with it. We’re both adults and can make decisions for ourselves. However, some people in my boyfriend’s life are very open about how they feel towards the age difference. We are open and talk about it when he needs. But he still occasionally feels like a creeper.

I started going out with my boyfriend(22m) about two months ago. It’s been great we get along splendid and there’s seems to be no issues with us. However, how we met was through my highschool band. He was a coach over my section all four years. We didn’t start hanging out or talking as formed until months after I had graduated and turned 18. Personally, I don’t see any problem with it. We’re both adults and can make decisions for ourselves. However, some people in my boyfriend’s life are very open about how they feel towards the age difference. We are open and talk about it when he needs. But he still occasionally feels like a creeper.

He's known you since you were 14 and he 18? And he was in a position of power over you as a coach???
Am I getting this right? 😭

I don't see anything wrong with that. As long as he has done nothing illegal and immoral. If a guy waited 4 years it is more likely he has serious feelings for the girl... I actually see this as a good sign.

It is not advised for anyone who was in a position of power to date someone even after the student has left school.

I don't see what's wrong with that?! She's no longer his student and he is no longer in a position of power. As long as he is not showing any power towards her or doing anything unpleasant or illegal I don't think it is wrong.

Well teachers have been banned for similar - he was in a position of power in the past and that has been enough.

I don't see anything wrong with that. As long as he has done nothing illegal and immoral. If a guy waited 4 years it is more likely he has serious feelings for the girl... I actually see this as a good sign.

she was a child when they met and his waiting was not romantic but grooming.

I would say just keep an eye on other red flags. The age difference and that he was in a position of power is not enough to accuse him of anything wrong.