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Going Abroad for College

Heyheyhey,

I'm a student from America who has always wanted to go abroad but has never really thought I would do it. Recently, I had this overwhelming urge to just go for it without even telling my parents about applying abroad (hell, if I am accepted I highly doubt they will let me but it doesn't hurt to try)

I'm curious, if you're an abroad student - what is it like? Was it scary? And what are the things that made you glad you did it?
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Original post by sivimatthews
Heyheyhey,
I'm a student from America who has always wanted to go abroad but has never really thought I would do it. Recently, I had this overwhelming urge to just go for it without even telling my parents about applying abroad (hell, if I am accepted I highly doubt they will let me but it doesn't hurt to try)
I'm curious, if you're an abroad student - what is it like? Was it scary? And what are the things that made you glad you did it?

I'm an international student from the US studying in the UK. I always knew I wanted to become a British citizen, and figured uni would be the fastest way to get there. I was 17 at the time, so I needed parental permission, but if you're 18 you won't. I honestly didn't find it scary or intimidating at all. I like travelling alone and loved moving to a country where no one knew me. I didn't really experience culture shock and it's not that different from the US. But every time I go outside and see the beautiful architecture and scenery, I'm glad I did it. I love how people are less political and I kinda have free healthcare (you gotta pay 3k for a 3 year visa for the healthcare, then you don't have to pay when you go to the hospital). I don't want to ever go back to the US, for a myriad of reasons. I would warn you that the way uni works is way different here, and I had trouble adjusting to the fact that some of my classes only have a single paper/presentation/other final project, worth 100% of the grade. I prefer having more coursework.
Original post by LeeJ9
I'm an international student from the US studying in the UK. I always knew I wanted to become a British citizen, and figured uni would be the fastest way to get there. I was 17 at the time, so I needed parental permission, but if you're 18 you won't. I honestly didn't find it scary or intimidating at all. I like travelling alone and loved moving to a country where no one knew me. I didn't really experience culture shock and it's not that different from the US. But every time I go outside and see the beautiful architecture and scenery, I'm glad I did it. I love how people are less political and I kinda have free healthcare (you gotta pay 3k for a 3 year visa for the healthcare, then you don't have to pay when you go to the hospital). I don't want to ever go back to the US, for a myriad of reasons. I would warn you that the way uni works is way different here, and I had trouble adjusting to the fact that some of my classes only have a single paper/presentation/other final project, worth 100% of the grade. I prefer having more coursework.

I know you briefly talked about not minding going alone. But I'm curious- did you have any homesickness? I've never been by myself much and have only ever travelled with my family. If you did have homesickness was it manageable?
Also by going to abroad for college was it difficult making friends? My biggest worry is moving across the world to a country I've never been in and not being able to make friends.
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Original post by sivimatthews
I know you briefly talked about not minding going alone. But I'm curious- did you have any homesickness? I've never been by myself much and have only ever travelled with my family. If you did have homesickness was it manageable?
Also by going to abroad for college was it difficult making friends? My biggest worry is moving across the world to a country I've never been in and not being able to make friends.

No, I didn't have any homesickness, but I've never really liked having family or friends around, I'm kinda in my own world. So, it might be different for you, but most of my fellow international students weren't homesick either. I had no issue making friends, I would actually say I accidentally got friends without wanting to. But I know a lot of uni students are always on online forums saying they're lonely, so if you're not a schizoid like me, you might get lonely. If you talk to people in lectures and go to university events, you'll definitely make friends, and you can make friends with your housemates pretty easily. I would really encourage you to go to games nights, quiz nights, etc. if your university offers them, because you'll end up being friends with whoever you sit next to. The first couple weeks of uni is by far the most important, because everyone is eager to make friends. I personally chose the university of Chester because it's the cheapest for international students, and I can only speak for my own university when I say that they offer a LOT of friend-making events.
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