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question for guys

how do you show your interest/attraction/crush on a girl you don't talk to much or know very well?

Thanxxxxx

Reply 1

Talk to her more and get to know her better.

Reply 2

Talk to them?

Admiring them from a distance won't get you very far.

Reply 3

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by Gazpacho.
Talk to them?
Admiring them from a distance won't get you very far.

nah word i need to fix up on that still.

Reply 4

bro ong i have a physical attraction on a girl but shes always talking to 2 boys both of which have girlfreinds so i always have had to admire her from a distance ,dont actually miss ur chance
and also she distracts me from my gcses in english lessons so im just going to ask her out asap then probably get rejected and go through a gcse arc where i get pure 9s etcetc,hopefully she doesnt reject me fr ,good luck ,and if youre scared of talking to her ,just make it super duper coincidental or smth and start something from there

Reply 5

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by Anonymous
how do you show your interest/attraction/crush on a girl you don't talk to much or know very well?
Thanxxxxx


Coming from a girl, ik u didn’t ask girls but anyways😭.

I would say talk to her (like everyone said) but if u don’t wanna talk irl then text every now and then, might make it easier for u. If there’s nthg to say then use tt/reels to start conversations up!

Reply 6

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by Nnnfrgj
Coming from a girl, ik u didn’t ask girls but anyways😭.
I would say talk to her (like everyone said) but if u don’t wanna talk irl then text every now and then, might make it easier for u. If there’s nthg to say then use tt/reels to start conversations up!

ngl i started to do that but then i deleted insta to concentrate on my gcses but now ive made it worse because all i can do is just look at her from a distance and do nothing which is just wierd innit ,i actually thought she had a crush on me but yh ,she called me cute like 6 times and actually didnt air my messages like most girls do for an extended period of time.

Reply 7

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by Anonymous
ngl i started to do that but then i deleted insta to concentrate on my gcses but now ive made it worse because all i can do is just look at her from a distance and do nothing which is just wierd innit ,i actually thought she had a crush on me but yh ,she called me cute like 6 times and actually didnt air my messages like most girls do for an extended period of time.


Icl after reading ur situation and her talking to guys who have girlfriends is hella weird, now idk what kinda talking she’s doing with the guys so that’s that.

I’d say save ur self the embarrassment and download insta again and ask her out through social media rather than in person. It’s funny that u said yll get 9s with a gcse arc if she rejects u but realistically ur gonna be the joke in her group so make sure she actually has some sort of interest.😭

U said she called u cute 6 times, now the real question is does she call everyone cute or was it just you?

Reply 8

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by Nnnfrgj
Icl after reading ur situation and her talking to guys who have girlfriends is hella weird, now idk what kinda talking she’s doing with the guys so that’s that.
I’d say save ur self the embarrassment and download insta again and ask her out through social media rather than in person. It’s funny that u said yll get 9s with a gcse arc if she rejects u but realistically ur gonna be the joke in her group so make sure she actually has some sort of interest.😭
U said she called u cute 6 times, now the real question is does she call everyone cute or was it just you?

hmmmm that is the question indeeed ,who tf knows ngl ,ive lost my phone for a month now and i cant log on to insta and my insta account got cleared properly like some bug or smth but yh ill just have to do that fr.but im using my laptop.

Reply 9

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by Anonymous
hmmmm that is the question indeeed ,who tf knows ngl ,ive lost my phone for a month now and i cant log on to insta and my insta account got cleared properly like some bug or smth but yh ill just have to do that fr.but im using my laptop.


Well if that’s the case then ur better off doing it face to face, she’ll find it more ******* weird if u create a whole new account and text her through a laptop to ask her out. I mean it’s cute if she likes u back but if not u look a bit obsessed.

Are you in Yr 11?, then maybe just do it before school ends so that way u don’t see her again if smthg goes wrong.

Reply 10

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by Nnnfrgj
Well if that’s the case then ur better off doing it face to face, she’ll find it more ******* weird if u create a whole new account and text her through a laptop to ask her out. I mean it’s cute if she likes u back but if not u look a bit obsessed.
Are you in Yr 11?, then maybe just do it before school ends so that way u don’t see her again if smthg goes wrong.

nah word ,yh thats why i made it so difficult for myslef, im so tapped

Reply 11

my freind went through 20 dif rejections and got cooked but bros doing perfectly fine these days

Reply 12

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by Anonymous
nah word ,yh thats why i made it so difficult for myslef, im so tapped


Ask the girl out if u really wanna but if not then find another crush who u can start over with? 😂

Reply 13

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by Nnnfrgj
Ask the girl out if u really wanna but if not then find another crush who u can start over with? 😂

it will be a constant cycle of mental anguish caused by the idea of having a crush.

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