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My ex-boyfriend is trying to ruin my life

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I'm sorting of seeing a new man aren't I as of the past week, it's not anything serious but I really like him and I'm happy about it aren't I. The problem is my ex-boyfriend though isn't it, because we were together for 3 months before we split up, and he hasn't accepted it has he. This ex though was the person who drove me to just want brief connections though wasn't it, as he was a bit of a crap boyfriend while we were together. How can I get him to realise I don't want him anymore, as I'm seeing a new bloke, even though it's not anything serious.

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Reply 1

That's not good is it.

Reply 2

Say "piss off, leave me alone" directly to his face?

Reply 3

whats with all the "aren't I" ? Anyways just outright tell him, simple

Reply 4

Why do you finish each sentence with a rhetorical question?

Anyway, tell him blunty, don't beat around the bush, just tell him - "look, I'm seeing somebody else and I'd appreciate if you left me alone now."

Reply 5

You should tell him where to stick it shouldn't you.

Reply 6

Ignore him? I'm assuming he's not really doing anything other than complaining, right?
Otherwise, bite him. Works every time.

Reply 7

Tell him to bugger off. Not difficult, is it?

Reply 8

Its finding how to tell him, isn't it really?
His cabable of alot as his hit me in the past when our relationship got difficult as you know his the one that drove me to brief relationships.

Reply 9

Text him, and tell him to **** off. Or leave a note attached to a brick that flies through his window.

Reply 10

Have you tried fist in face approach? I hear it's all the rage these day amongst drunken illogical teens.

Reply 11

You should just ignore him, especially if he has been violent in the past. It will take a few weeks but eventually he'll get bored and move on. Good luck.

Reply 12

Well how did you go about splitting up with him? If you didn't handle it very well, surprisingly, you might be to blame partly.

Reply 13

ScReaMiNg_rAvEr_x
Keep anonymous please

I'm sorting of seeing a new man aren't I as of the past week, it's not anything serious but I really like him and I'm happy about it aren't I. The problem is my ex-boyfriend though isn't it, because we were together for 3 months before we split up, and he hasn't accepted it has he. This ex though was the person who drove me to just want brief connections though wasn't it, as he was a bit of a crap boyfriend while we were together. How can I get him to realise I don't want him anymore, as I'm seeing a new bloke, even though it's not anything serious.


Tell him, very kindly, that you have lost your interest in him, and that there are many other awesome girls out there.

Reply 14

Thanks for deleting the nasty posts mods :smile:

Reply 15

:troll:

Does no one else see the sarcasm in her original post? :rofl:

I just find it funny that a lot of people are giving serious answers.

Reply 16

ScReaMiNg_rAvEr_x
Keep anonymous please

I'm sorting of seeing a new man aren't I as of the past week, it's not anything serious but I really like him and I'm happy about it aren't I. The problem is my ex-boyfriend though isn't it, because we were together for 3 months before we split up, and he hasn't accepted it has he. This ex though was the person who drove me to just want brief connections though wasn't it, as he was a bit of a crap boyfriend while we were together. How can I get him to realise I don't want him anymore, as I'm seeing a new bloke, even though it's not anything serious.

Please learn to speak properly and when you want something to appear annon it might have been usefull to press the box =P

Reply 17

ScReaMiNg_rAvEr_x
Keep anonymous please

I'm sorting of seeing a new man aren't I as of the past week, it's not anything serious but I really like him and I'm happy about it aren't I. The problem is my ex-boyfriend though isn't it, because we were together for 3 months before we split up, and he hasn't accepted it has he. This ex though was the person who drove me to just want brief connections though wasn't it, as he was a bit of a crap boyfriend while we were together. How can I get him to realise I don't want him anymore, as I'm seeing a new bloke, even though it's not anything serious.


As I found impossible to understand which of these questions were rhetorical I have decided to answer all the questions in your post
1. I am not sure. Probably if he is one of these new fangled 'visible' men
2.Your emotional state is best known to yourself but it does sound indeed like a positive occurence
3.+ 4. I would say the problem is definitely either with your 'ex-boyfriend' or yourself if it is the question of accepting you were together for three months. Is he particularly against the passage of time or was he merely unaware that you were dating him?
5. You want brief connections? Is this some kind of suspender belt? If so it is possible he drove you to want them- it really depends on the kind of relationship you were having...
6. Finally, I am sure that seeing a new bloke will make him realise that you don't have eyes for the ex any more

Reply 18

Hahahahha Fail.

Reply 19

"Incy wincy EMO climbed da water spout
dwn came ScReaMiNg rAvErrrr n KNOCKED DA bAStaRd OUT!!!!!! aYIT"

You're just a barrel of laughs, aren't you?