Guy i met
So i met this guy i had been speaking to for a while online. I met him a few times. But i don’t know why i just don’t feel special. He is a lovely guy but i just always wanted to feel loved and wanted. Even though he says he likes me and stuff i just don’t feel it. I’m also starting to not feel attracted to him , i may sound selfish and horrible but he is too slim for me. I mean i wouldn’t say it to him but i just always wanted to feel protected by a man ( having no good male figure in my life) i just wanted a strong man, loving , romantic, shows gestures , someone bigger and bulkier than me. I am not fat but i am bigger than him i feel like i don’t feel safe with his hugs. I feel so bad writing this but i don’t know what to do.
Leave him girlll
Original post by Anonymous
Leave him girlll
But i have shared so much with him. He always listens to me, doesn’t judge. We have known each other for so long, but only recently not long ago decided to meet😭. He is serious but I feel so bad. I don’t want to make the wrong decision
Original post by Anonymous
But i have shared so much with him. He always listens to me, doesn’t judge. We have known each other for so long, but only recently not long ago decided to meet😭. He is serious but I feel so bad. I don’t want to make the wrong decision
trust me you will get over it dont get into a rs with someone just beucase you have good platonic chemistry you may think your for eachother, maybe you are but girll
You shouldn't feel obliged to stick with it just because the other person is nice or you've committed a bit of time to them. If it's not working, it's better to end things now rather than dragging it out hoping things will get better.
That's pretty much mandatory for any relationship. Not a nice bonus
Original post by Anonymous
But i have shared so much with him. He always listens to me, doesn’t judge.
That's pretty much mandatory for any relationship. Not a nice bonus
I can’t give you advice on next steps, but as someone who’s been in a fair few relationships, don’t be afraid to look around, ring young means you have time to explore and figure out what you it really want. No need to tie yourself down. If you find someone you click with, then by all means that’s amazing, but you’re under no obligation to find your life partner and invest.
Which takes me onto my next point. that feeling, where you don’t feel the same about them anymore. It’s completely normal, happens with the majority of people i meet, either one of us. you meet, you think you’re both perfect for each other, then after a few weeks, that lovestruck phase starts to fade away and you notice things that you just didn’t see before, because you were so blinded by your emotions. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s perfectly normal, and out of your control.
Which takes me onto my next point. that feeling, where you don’t feel the same about them anymore. It’s completely normal, happens with the majority of people i meet, either one of us. you meet, you think you’re both perfect for each other, then after a few weeks, that lovestruck phase starts to fade away and you notice things that you just didn’t see before, because you were so blinded by your emotions. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s perfectly normal, and out of your control.
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