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Does anyone else feel no masculine urges other as a bloke?

I m26 have never felt the need to compete or fight. I never get rowdy even when people make fun of me. It feels weird sometimes like I should be behaving a different way. Someone bumped into me and knocked my drink out my hand the other night and my friends said to fight him but I just said im sure it was an accident. They thought that was weird but why would I get into a fight over a drink.

Reply 1

I'm not 100% what masculine urges feel like.

Anyone can be a jerk and fly off the handle at stuff, and yes, trying to fight someone because they bumped into you would be extremely childish to say the least and almost anyone would see it as the desperately insecure move it is. Not to mention the possibility of finding yourself sitting in a police holding cell for a few days with a few missing teeth wondering why the hell you put yourself in this position over a beer and being goaded by an idiot friend.

Reply 2

Sounds like you need better friends... 😅

Reply 3

Original post by SHallowvale
Sounds like you need better friends... 😅

Yup, and you can bet money when you get encouraged to bite off more than you can chew and start taking a beating, it will likely be those same 'friends' that are watching and laughing. Or worse, getting involved and turning a few punches outside a pub into someone getting the sort of beating that leads to hospital and outright prison time.

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Original post by StriderHort
Yup, and you can bet money when you get encouraged to bite off more than you can chew and start taking a beating, it will likely be those same 'friends' that are watching and laughing. Or worse, getting involved and turning a few punches outside a pub into someone getting the sort of beating that leads to hospital and outright prison time.

Most definitely, the human body is a lot more fragile than people realise. 😨 One quick head to the curb can kill you instantly, or make you brain dead. No spilt beer is worth that.

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