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I've been going to my local clothes shop a lot because I fancy a girl there. I've spoken to her a few times. Ive been going every weekend. Today she mentioned 'how she's been seeing me everyday' I laughed it off
. I ended the convoy by asking for her name. She gave it.

What did she mean?

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Original post by Anonymous
I've been going to my local clothes shop a lot because I fancy a girl there. I've spoken to her a few times. Ive been going every weekend. Today she mentioned 'how she's been seeing me everyday' I laughed it off
. I ended the convoy by asking for her name. She gave it.
What did she mean?

Possibly nothing. But if you go to the same clothes shop regularly just to see her, maybe it's time that you just go talk to her and tell her that you would like to go out with her sometime. You will survive, don't worry. It's not easy for anyone. Maybe ask her if she has someone first.
Reply 2
I have spoken to her many times.

The first time I spoke to her I was in along queue. Every customer she served she didn't make small talk with them. When it came to me she started asking me random questions about my clothes that I was buying and was extra polite. When I left I realized she might have been interested.

Ever since then I've been going every week. I've had a few convos etc. We've had a laugh about me being a regular customer

Today I managed to ask her name but it was way too busy and I could see she her face getting red. She said 'I've been seeing you everyday' like she knows lol.

Maybe I'll wait a few weeks then go back again. It's a big store with many customers.
Original post by Anonymous
I've been going to my local clothes shop a lot because I fancy a girl there. I've spoken to her a few times. Ive been going every weekend. Today she mentioned 'how she's been seeing me everyday' I laughed it off
. I ended the convoy by asking for her name. She gave it.
What did she mean?

She is noticing that you are coming to keep seeing her. Make a move, life is too short to not.
Reply 4
I did. I asked her for her name. She smiled a lot and told me her name but then cut the convo by saying bye
Original post by Anonymous
I did. I asked her for her name. She smiled a lot and told me her name but then cut the convo by saying bye

Ask her for her socials then, get talking outside of you going to the same shop to see her every day.
Original post by Anonymous
I have spoken to her many times.

The first time I spoke to her I was in along queue. Every customer she served she didn't make small talk with them. When it came to me she started asking me random questions about my clothes that I was buying and was extra polite. When I left I realized she might have been interested.

Ever since then I've been going every week. I've had a few convos etc. We've had a laugh about me being a regular customer

Today I managed to ask her name but it was way too busy and I could see she her face getting red. She said 'I've been seeing you everyday' like she knows lol.

Maybe I'll wait a few weeks then go back again. It's a big store with many customers.


To me, it seems clear that she's at least noticed you. Surely it can't to try asking her out, considering she seems happy to talk openly with you. Her conversation with you seems friendly and familiar, so it wouldn't be too much of a jump to go to the next level...

Good luck!
Reply 7
But she made the convo awkward by saying to me 'I've been seeing you everyday' we both just laughed it off
Reply 8
I can't tell if she was creeped out or just having friendly banter??

If she was creeped out she wouldn't have said that she's been seeing me everyday
If you are interested in her, why do you want to wait a few weeks ? That's probably a bad move as you are not even talking, except when you go to the shop. Well, I do not think that letting this at this stage for weeks without doing anything is the right move.
Original post by Anonymous
I did. I asked her for her name. She smiled a lot and told me her name but then cut the convo by saying bye

Yes, because she's there to work and not have long social chats.
I couldn't tell if she's creeped out or just being friendly?
Original post by Anonymous
I couldn't tell if she's creeped out or just being friendly?


There's only 1 way to know - talk to her
Original post by taylor2317
There's only 1 way to know - talk to her


Yh but she knows I'm coming weekly just to talk to her it's a bit awkward maybe I will go back in a few weeks

Everytime I've gone there she is the one who initiates conversation
Original post by Anonymous
I did. I asked her for her name. She smiled a lot and told me her name but then cut the convo by saying bye


Looks like that she has seen through you and grasped that you have a crush on her and refused a date with you. Sorry.
Original post by Kallisto
Looks like that she has seen through you and grasped that you have a crush on her and refused a date with you. Sorry.


If that's the case she wouldn't have tried to initiate conversation. It was extremely busy maybe she didn't want me to ask in front of all them customers
Am I over thinking this?
Original post by Anonymous
Am I over thinking this?


Yes, massively.

Ask for socials, if they say no, they weren't interested. Job done.
Original post by Anonymous
Am I over thinking this?

Yes, just talk to her and see what happens
Original post by taylor2317
Yes, just talk to her and see what happens


I did talk to her and asked for her name.... She gave it and then said 'have a good day'.
Maybe it was busy and it was the wrong time.

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