Living with toxic Pakistani parents

This post probably will get banned like always but I don’t know how to cope with my abusive, toxic, evil and manipulative parents!
A bit of a back story I have 6 siblings, we moved to a new house when I was 6 years old, this is were I gained consciousness as a kid becaue before that I was locked up at home and wasn’t allowed outside only school and back.
Now living in the new house my parents would argue for hours on end, my dad will punch holes in the wall, didn’t allow us to watch tv, have freedom, anything. During this time my mum will hit us argue with us eveyday she would also say I need to do chores and iron clothes at that young age, she would bully me not buy me clothes teach me to brush or wash my face or anything. I wasn’t allowed to fry my hair or straighten it. She would stand in the hall way and argue for hours then go to her mum house and talk badly about us that we’re difficult don’t clean up when we were just kids, she’s manipulative evil woman and I will never forgive her,
During my teenage years she would try to eveyone away from me she would isolate me manipulate and tell lies to her family so they won’t listen to my side. She’s was in her 40s or fifties tbh I never bothered keeping track of her age becse she was an evil woman. She would hit me screm at me talk **** about me on the street to my neighbours, to my teachers, to my cousins and they all believed her lies, I grow up fearing her or I never thought about speaking or talking to other about it in my family because I feel like they don’t care and enjoy my suffering
So I don’t know what to do and how it will stop I’m stuck in this mess and I can’t wait till this psychological tortucger is over, I hate my culture and I hate my parents

If you are an adult, why are you still living at home? She probably sees you as a burden living in the house. Move out, get a bf and start living your life.

This such a spiteful laden response

Spiteful to who? I do not know the OP.
You are probably new to TSR, I am a direct communicator. I see things straight. If the OP gets offended, that can be addressed on a case by case basis.

This post probably will get banned like always but I don’t know how to cope with my abusive, toxic, evil and manipulative parents!
A bit of a back story I have 6 siblings, we moved to a new house when I was 6 years old, this is were I gained consciousness as a kid becaue before that I was locked up at home and wasn’t allowed outside only school and back.
Now living in the new house my parents would argue for hours on end, my dad will punch holes in the wall, didn’t allow us to watch tv, have freedom, anything. During this time my mum will hit us argue with us eveyday she would also say I need to do chores and iron clothes at that young age, she would bully me not buy me clothes teach me to brush or wash my face or anything. I wasn’t allowed to fry my hair or straighten it. She would stand in the hall way and argue for hours then go to her mum house and talk badly about us that we’re difficult don’t clean up when we were just kids, she’s manipulative evil woman and I will never forgive her,
During my teenage years she would try to eveyone away from me she would isolate me manipulate and tell lies to her family so they won’t listen to my side. She’s was in her 40s or fifties tbh I never bothered keeping track of her age becse she was an evil woman. She would hit me screm at me talk **** about me on the street to my neighbours, to my teachers, to my cousins and they all believed her lies, I grow up fearing her or I never thought about speaking or talking to other about it in my family because I feel like they don’t care and enjoy my suffering
So I don’t know what to do and how it will stop I’m stuck in this mess and I can’t wait till this psychological tortucger is over, I hate my culture and I hate my parents

Being direct is not the same as normalising behaviour which is abusive, victim blaming and lacking empathy. Usually what people use as the justification however hence my absolute lack of surprise.

If you are an adult, why are you still living at home? She probably sees you as a burden living in the house. Move out, get a bf and start living your life.

The way this response is just not helpful whatsoever, ah yes "just get a life" im sure thats what OP needs to hear.

If you are an adult, why are you still living at home? She probably sees you as a burden living in the house. Move out, get a bf and start living your life.

Fluffy words? being rude asf certainly doesnt make it any better than coddling. How would getting a boyfriend fix anything? "Neither was there abuse?" Is your direct communication just a cover of how obtuse your being? Actually consider that bit of advice you just gave and think if its helpful or not. People find it hard to ask for help because of people like you. Compassion comes in many forms, good advice too, your responses lack both.
But no, lets handle it on a "case by case basis" shall we? 💀

So you think getting a boyfriend is one of the things to be considered rn?? You didn't even talk about getting a job or getting help and if she/he moves out, to where exactly?
I think our advice should be in order of priority. To me, I agree with @Russ3684.
But oh well......🤷*♀️

It’s the doubling down and denial the op is living with abuse for me - if I were the op I wouldn’t take advice from anyone doing those things under a guise of “I’m just a direct person” - you literally have no understanding of the dynamics of this situation and the potential implications of your poor advice.

As long as that makes sense to you.