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Ok, I've liked this guy for so long I can't even count how long. I love his personality he is so kind, nice, and funny, but all of a sudden I'm not physically attracted to him anymore. I don't know why maybe I've finally grown out of this "crush", but I just told him when I thought I still liked him and he likes me back. The reason I believe I lost feelings is he still looks the same. I wanted him when I was ugly, okay, and now after my glow-up. Yet all of a sudden I realized how pretty I was (which I struggled with for a long time) and realized that he wasn't my type. After all this, though I still really like him emotionally and not that much physically, so basically I need help and have no clue what is happening.

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DataVenia

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Original post by Anonymous

When you say you, "realized that he wasn't my type" is sounds like what you really mean is that you "realised I could do better".

Have I got this sequence of events right?
1. You "liked this guy" and "love his personality he is so kind, nice, and funny".
2. After "so long I can't even count how long" you confessed your feelings.
3. He let you know that "he likes me back".
4. "all of a sudden I'm not physically attracted to him anymore".

The "all of a sudden" sounds like your no longer attracted to him because he likes you back.

Another possibility is that it was only "after my glow-up" that you had sufficient confidence to confess your feelings, but now that he's said "he likes me back" you'd like to trade-up to someone more on your level, looks-wise.

I must say, you don't come across very well here. Is the fact that "love his personality he is so kind, nice, and funny" now irrelevant?