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Should I get back with him?

Should I get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew I didn’t want too do that’s and I was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and I didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s I still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years I forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women

Reply 1

Nooo

Reply 2

Original post
by Anonymous
Should I get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew I didn’t want too do that’s and I was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and I didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s I still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years I forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women

girl noooooooo
Nope.

Reply 4

As others have said, Nope

Relationships are work they take effort. Remind yourself of the headaches and heartaches this guy has caused and ask if he is worth your effort simply because his interested

Reply 5

I can see about 4 reasons not to here, and I'm sure there are more.

Reply 6

Original post
by Anonymous
Should I get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew I didn’t want too do that’s and I was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and I didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s I still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years I forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women

Omg actually stand up and buy yourself some self respect. You’re really considering taking someone back who coerced you into sleeping with him because he saw taking your virginity as a challenge whilst simultaneously telling another girl he wants to marry her. The faster you let this man go the better your life will be. Do you genuinely think if the roles were reversed he would ever take you back? The answer is no.
Loving yourself is just as important as loving your partner in relationships. If you can’t love yourself enough, people will walk all over you in relationships whether romantic or friendships. Out of all the things I’m seeing not once am I seeing that you’ve picked yourself in this situation. Be selfish and choose yourself first. Cut him off never see him again and with time you’ll move on. You’ll find someone loved and respect you not by words but by his actions !!

Reply 7

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by A.O2000
Omg actually stand up and buy yourself some self respect. You’re really considering taking someone back who coerced you into sleeping with him because he saw taking your virginity as a challenge whilst simultaneously telling another girl he wants to marry her. The faster you let this man go the better your life will be. Do you genuinely think if the roles were reversed he would ever take you back? The answer is no.
Loving yourself is just as important as loving your partner in relationships. If you can’t love yourself enough, people will walk all over you in relationships whether romantic or friendships. Out of all the things I’m seeing not once am I seeing that you’ve picked yourself in this situation. Be selfish and choose yourself first. Cut him off never see him again and with time you’ll move on. You’ll find someone loved and respect you not by words but by his actions !!


Thank you I needed this

Reply 8

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by Anonymous
Thank you I needed this

Ik it was a bit harsh but I genuinely just want you to love and pick yourself. Don't let anyone ever tell you it’s selfish to do so and even if it is so what. No one is gonna is gonna protect you but you. Stay safe and I genuinely hope you can find someone who loves and respect you the way you actually deserve ☺️☺️
Absolutely not.

Reply 10

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by anonymous
should i get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew i didn’t want too do that’s and i was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and i didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s i still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years i forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women

absolutley not.

Reply 11

Original post
by Anonymous
Should I get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew I didn’t want too do that’s and I was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and I didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s I still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years I forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women


The first line is legit enough to state - no don’t get back

Reply 12

Original post
by Anonymous
Should I get back with a guy who took advantage of my virginity even though he knew I didn’t want too do that’s and I was drunk too but he acted like me loved me and all that’s we were planning our life’s and everything he also was talking too a girl behind my back and I didn’t even know about it’s and that’s girl said that’s he told her that’s he loves her and he was talking too her parents on marrying her and all that’s I still forgive him because we were together for 1 and a half years I forgive him multiple times even when he screamed at me for calling him a women


No

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