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Anxiety

Hi. So I am heterosexual I’ve only ever been attracted to the opposite sex. However I suffer anxiety whenever gay/lesbian etc is ever brought up in to conversation why is this? It really makes me doubt myself as in what if I am gay etc but deep down I know I only wanna be with the opposite sex. But I’ll get random thoughts of like if someone was to say be you,or be yourself I go into absolute panic like what if I’m not being true to myself, what if this means something, what if I am gay
Original post by Anonymous
Hi. So I am heterosexual I’ve only ever been attracted to the opposite sex. However I suffer anxiety whenever gay/lesbian etc is ever brought up in to conversation why is this? It really makes me doubt myself as in what if I am gay etc but deep down I know I only wanna be with the opposite sex. But I’ll get random thoughts of like if someone was to say be you,or be yourself I go into absolute panic like what if I’m not being true to myself, what if this means something, what if I am gay

Sexuality is a spectrum, you probably aren't one or the other. You can't hide from your feelings, so as soon as you accept them as a normal thing everyone experiences, you should be fine.
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Original post by stilllearning123
Sexuality is a spectrum, you probably aren't one or the other. You can't hide from your feelings, so as soon as you accept them as a normal thing everyone experiences, you should be fine.

How can I hide from feelings other than anxiety?? I don’t have any feeling towards the same sex
Hi there, sorry to hear you are struggling with anxiety at the moment. It’s really good that you have been so open and honest with how you are feeling. We hear that you feel your anxiety is linked to the mention of gay/lesbian, but is the anxiety an underlying mental health concern? We wonder where your worries about being gay have come from, would it be concerning to you if you are? If feeling like this is causing you to experience any thoughts of suicide, please call Hopeline247 on 0800 168 14 14 or text 88247 and a trained suicide prevention adviser will be able to advise and support you.
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Original post by Papyrus Hopeline
Hi there, sorry to hear you are struggling with anxiety at the moment. It’s really good that you have been so open and honest with how you are feeling. We hear that you feel your anxiety is linked to the mention of gay/lesbian, but is the anxiety an underlying mental health concern? We wonder where your worries about being gay have come from, would it be concerning to you if you are? If feeling like this is causing you to experience any thoughts of suicide, please call Hopeline247 on 0800 168 14 14 or text 88247 and a trained suicide prevention adviser will be able to advise and support you.

No it wouldn’t be concerning to me if I was. However I wouldn’t want to be as I don’t want to date or have sec with the same sex so I guess the thought of it causes anxiety because I’m very much like oh I wouldn’t want that
Original post by Anonymous
Hi. So I am heterosexual I’ve only ever been attracted to the opposite sex. However I suffer anxiety whenever gay/lesbian etc is ever brought up in to conversation why is this? It really makes me doubt myself as in what if I am gay etc but deep down I know I only wanna be with the opposite sex. But I’ll get random thoughts of like if someone was to say be you,or be yourself I go into absolute panic like what if I’m not being true to myself, what if this means something, what if I am gay

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/feelings-and-symptoms/anxiety-fear-panic/

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/feelings-and-symptoms/anxiety-fear-panic/
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