Guy problems
Hey guys, u want your thoughts on what you think about this
I like a guy and It has been a while and recently I followed him on TikTok, instagram and added his snap, I realised he barely follows ppl on instagram and I’m the only girl he follows, on TikTok he hasn’t followed me back but his account is private so he accepted my follow request and he added me back on snap and we kind of spoke a little. The problem is he barely snaps me or speaks to me rn and he doesent look at me that much in school. Like we just started a snap streak and I literally send him a snap saying sb (aka snap back ) and a lot of people know what that means if u have Snapchat and he left it on opened like im so confused idk if he likes me or not. But I’m close with one of his friends and they told me they’ll help me and find out if he likes
Anyone rn and hopefully he mentions me. So he did ask him and he said “I know a girl likes me why would you randomly ask me” and he kept asking who’s the girl who’s the girl and I think I should let him say the girl is me now and be honest with him but I’m scared if he removes me, his best friend told me he’s not like that and he’s really respectful and that would be rude of him but idk what do y’all think
I like a guy and It has been a while and recently I followed him on TikTok, instagram and added his snap, I realised he barely follows ppl on instagram and I’m the only girl he follows, on TikTok he hasn’t followed me back but his account is private so he accepted my follow request and he added me back on snap and we kind of spoke a little. The problem is he barely snaps me or speaks to me rn and he doesent look at me that much in school. Like we just started a snap streak and I literally send him a snap saying sb (aka snap back ) and a lot of people know what that means if u have Snapchat and he left it on opened like im so confused idk if he likes me or not. But I’m close with one of his friends and they told me they’ll help me and find out if he likes
Anyone rn and hopefully he mentions me. So he did ask him and he said “I know a girl likes me why would you randomly ask me” and he kept asking who’s the girl who’s the girl and I think I should let him say the girl is me now and be honest with him but I’m scared if he removes me, his best friend told me he’s not like that and he’s really respectful and that would be rude of him but idk what do y’all think
Reply 1
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Get off social media and talk to this guy in real life! Have lunch with him, ask to meet for homework help, go for a bite to eat outside school. You can't complain that he "barely" does anything when you're as guilty of inactivity as he is.
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
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by SurniaGet off social media and talk to this guy in real life! Have lunch with him, ask to meet for homework help, go for a bite to eat outside school. You can't complain that he "barely" does anything when you're as guilty of inactivity as he is.
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
I can’t do that because he is Muslim and in his religion some of the things you mentioned are sadly haram, I’m not Muslim but I will respect his religion and boundaries, and I recently bought him Snapchat plus and we have been talking more on message but school starts on the 24th feb
Reply 3
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by SurniaGet off social media and talk to this guy in real life! Have lunch with him, ask to meet for homework help, go for a bite to eat outside school. You can't complain that he "barely" does anything when you're as guilty of inactivity as he is.
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
If he removes you from social media it's not being rude, it's that it is boring because there's next to nothing happening on there. It's hardly a priority to message someone who doesn't talk to you properly. You're just a name on a screen...
He knows that I like him but doesent mind he just isn’t ready but thinks I’m nice ofc he doesent know me too well to like me back yet
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by asthavrsHe knows that I like him but doesent mind he just isn’t ready but thinks I’m nice ofc he doesent know me too well to like me back yet
U think he will be ready to date u considering his religion?, im not Muslim but isn’t it haram to date. Ofc not all follow it but im only asking cuz u mentioned it, that might even be the reason his dry sometimes?
Regardless has there been any progress or signs from his side ? Since u said yll started talking then r yll a bit closer now
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