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GF keeps staring at me during sex

I find it really uncomfortable and awkward but whenever we have sex my GF is just staring into my eyes the entire time, she never looks away and is just locked in staring at me. It feels really uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.

I've tried changing to positions which doesn't allow her to look at me e.g. doggy style but she always says she doesn't like it and wants to be able to see me.

i don't like eye contact during sex. How get I get more comfortable with this?

also what do I do when she is staring at me it just feels like awkward silence, am i meant to talk dirty or do anything specific that can help improve my sex game?
maybe instead of hopping on the student room, start a converstion with her? ask her why she locks eye contact with you during it? and then tell her it makes you uncomfortable. maybe her reasoning might make you more comfy w it (ie when you lock eyes it increases oxycotin the bonding hormone so chemically you should look at each other during the act). but just talk to her! this isnt something some rando on this platform can help with.
Reply 2
Just close your eyes. Or talk it through with your partner
Original post by Anonymous
I find it really uncomfortable and awkward but whenever we have sex my GF is just staring into my eyes the entire time, she never looks away and is just locked in staring at me. It feels really uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.
I've tried changing to positions which doesn't allow her to look at me e.g. doggy style but she always says she doesn't like it and wants to be able to see me.
i don't like eye contact during sex. How get I get more comfortable with this?
also what do I do when she is staring at me it just feels like awkward silence, am i meant to talk dirty or do anything specific that can help improve my sex game?

She may be dissociating ,possibly.
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
I find it really uncomfortable and awkward but whenever we have sex my GF is just staring into my eyes the entire time, she never looks away and is just locked in staring at me. It feels really uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.
I've tried changing to positions which doesn't allow her to look at me e.g. doggy style but she always says she doesn't like it and wants to be able to see me.
i don't like eye contact during sex. How get I get more comfortable with this?
also what do I do when she is staring at me it just feels like awkward silence, am i meant to talk dirty or do anything specific that can help improve my sex game?

Women require sexual intimacy in an emotive context.
Who cares what she does with her eyes? It's what she does with other parts of her anatomy that counts.

Much better to have a staring pneumatic sex goddess than an eyes closed dead starfish.

If it unnerves you that much, dump her and get another girlfriend. There's plenty out there that close their eyes.
I personally think it's hot that she stares into your eyes. Because she has her visual focus on you.
Reply 6
Bcoz she probably feels sentimental in some way that she's connecting physically and emotionally with you, and eye contact is another way to hold that. Plus its hot.
She could wear mirror shades?

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