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by Harry LHU
Hey there mate,
I know what its like to be at a low point while at university, especially at the start. To me it sounds like you're doing pretty good so far, you've made a friend, you've settled into a flat that sounds like they don't cause too many issues, and you're set to get a strong 2:1 already, maybe even better, when considering second and third year! Not to mention just going to university is a big one, in your hometown or not, its a completely new dynamic and can't be understated.
It took me a good few months to start getting involved with any of the social aspects of university at all, and really only did properly in my second year of uni, for similar reasons - but societies and/or sports teams are a great start, especially something related to your course or a hobby/interest, just do it and go by yourself or with someone like your course mate, you never know what it could do for you until you try!
Regarding the tenancy agreement, I can't really advise you there, although I hope you feel you can stay there some more or find a way to resolve your issue. Also, you haven't messed anything up, whatever you choose to do - it took me 4 years, or 5 if you include my own gap year, to complete my undergraduate, and I'm much better for it now having experienced what I have along the way during the years. Either way, university isn't the be all and end all, your wellbeing is, and what you want to do - but be sure to talk it over with friends, family and the university first to consider your options, which there are plenty.
Finally, it would be amiss if I didn't mention mental health, so consider getting in contact with the university's support services by email or drop-in, I know most universities offer good support services for students, and as someone who has made use of university support, it really has made a difference during my undergrad, and now into my postgrad!
I hope this can help at least a bit, and I wish you all the best in getting through this,
Harry
LHU Student Ambassador
MA Politics and International Relations