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Am I a slut?

Anonymous #1

I've slept with 12 men including one threesome since I been to uni in September, does this make me a bad person?

Reply 1

WilfredTC

Original post

by Anonymous

I've slept with 12 men including one threesome since I been to uni in September, does this make me a bad person?

Don't be hard on yourself. Everyone makes mistakes! I bet you are a lovely person. To be honest, you should stop sleeping around, it is just meaningless, you will end up regretting it, especially if you want something serious one day. Hope you're doing well!

Reply 2

Dunnig Kruger

Original post

by Anonymous

I've slept with 12 men including one threesome since I been to uni in September, does this make me a bad person?

Excellent! Keep it up. You're having a great time and you're not harming anyone. In fact quite the opposite.

In life you may well get people that give you all sorts of derogatory labels, just because you're different to them. Or are living your life differently to them.

In the context of your sleeping activities, their criticism says more about them than it does you. IE you're fine Anyone criticising you for this is being intolerant / narrow minded / overly negative / overly critical.

Reply 3

StriderHort

A bit promiscuous maybe, but doesn't particularly mean you're not being discerning about partners or a 'bad person', are you misleading people, manipulating or hurting them?

Plenty people see uni as a chance to experiment, meet new people and literally **** about.

Reply 4

Ghostlady

Original post

by Anonymous

I've slept with 12 men including one threesome since I been to uni in September, does this make me a bad person?

Only you can be the judge of you. If you are questioning your actions, perhaps you should stop sleeping around as much. Is there something missing from your life? Or is it simply for fun? Dont worry what other people think, only care about what you think? If 12 guys in X amount of time is bothering you, just reign it back a bit.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Of course not ! So long as your being safe there’s nothing wrong with having fun

Reply 6

Crazy Jamie

Some good advice already in this thread. You're absolutely not a bad person. Life is all about gaining experiences and learning from them, and university is that and then some. What matters is whether you're enjoying yourself. If you are, keep doing those things. If you're not, adjust accordingly. Doing something or several things that you regret isn't bad either, it just means you should take note of the regret and adjust in future. But none of this is bad and none of it makes you a bad person.

Reply 7

Ciel.

no, but people will still judge you if you tell them. especially men. i never tell people my real body count, not even my boyfriend knows. i suggest you do the same.

Reply 8

Zarek

I would never use this word. Do what you want with your body. If your not happy do something different

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

Original post

by Dunnig Kruger

Excellent! Keep it up. You're having a great time and you're not harming anyone. In fact quite the opposite.
In life you may well get people that give you all sorts of derogatory labels, just because you're different to them. Or are living your life differently to them.
In the context of your sleeping activities, their criticism says more about them than it does you. IE you're fine Anyone criticising you for this is being intolerant / narrow minded / overly negative / overly critical.