Upset because I can't get laid at uni
Can't get laid at uni, i tried so hard with girls, they are easy for other guys but when it comes to me they have no interest, any tips to get causal sex in uni halls?
Reply 1
why do you want casual sex tho, kinda a red flag
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous
why do you want casual sex tho, kinda a red flag
Because everyone else enjoys that in our halls
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
Because everyone else enjoys that in our halls
If everyone else "enjoys that", and you're not (but want to)... then the problem clearly lies with YOU!
You're not giving much away in your initial post, so I'll give you a few things to think about:-
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Maybe you're coming across as desperate or "creepy"
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Maybe your standards / expectations are too high or unrealistic
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Maybe you're not making as much effort as you claim to
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Maybe you've got poor or no people / social skills
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Maybe you're unattractive and not making any effort with your physical presentation
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Maybe you have bad hygiene (e.g. dirty clothes; bad breath or a BO problem; your room smells etc.)
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Maybe there are some fundamentally unpleasant aspects about your personality or how you conduct yourself
I understand that the above may not necessarily be easy or nice to hear... but once you accept that one of them may be the possible reason, then you can do something about it and maybe improve your chances.
Sorry to break it to you, but no one "owes" you casual sex bruv!
(edited 2 months ago)
You go to uni for an education. There are other places you can go for casual sex. Google is your friend...
Original post by Anonymous
Because everyone else enjoys that in our halls
Although it may seem that way, actual surveys repeatedly find that people are having far less sex than they may be letting on. You don't need to be having lots of sex to be keeping up with the Joneses. Plenty of people are in your situtation.
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