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Aita for ending a 4 year friendship over a cookie?(LONG STORY)

I have known this girl since 6th grade we’re gonna call her slippery dolphin because why not. So me and slippery dolphin met in 6th grade in 8th period math class and we were talking about and laughing and I drew a heart on her arm and she didn’t like the heart and scribbled all over my face with permanent marker I was so shocked then I just ran to the bathroom and cried a teacher noticed me and helped me get the marker off and then we went to the counselors and she was just told to say sorry and we went back to class 2 months later we became friends over common interests and having many classes together a year passed and we were chill we didn’t talk much but we were chill 7th grade eventually started and we got pretty close with each other and one day my best friend friend was like you guys should date and after thinking about it I was like sure and we started dating (yes I like guys and girls if you have enough room in your life for that kind of hate just leave) me and slippery dolphin lasted 2 months and during the relationship she would steal and would hit anyone who would try to hug me or have a conversation with me she was very obsessive and after the breakup she would mock me and harass me and my friends but after a week she cooled down and we continued our friendship then 8th grade started and we had a new friend we will call lord farquad slippery dolphin would hit me and lord farquad and get mad if we didn’t do what she said until eventually we talked about it and she agreed to stop but after she stopped lord farquad started talking behind my back with slippery dolphin I read their texts and slippery dolphin would actually side with me so our friendship continued now we are in 9th grade and I have a new friend we will call mayo slippery dolphin acted pretty normal the beginning of 9th grade until a month into the school year she started pushing mayo and shaking mayo and making tiny insults at mayo one day I got a cookie for slippery dolphin and mayo texted slippery dolphin that she ate the cookie as a joke and slippery dolphin just went full off on her cussing her out telling her to kill herself till lunch mayo was walking with her tray when slippery dolphin ran up to her smacked the tray out of her hand and cussed her out some nice girls helped mayo clean up the mess as teachers rushed her down to the office and mayo got a new tray but as lunch was happening slippery dolphin spammed mayos phone saying how much she hated mayo and to the point where I had to take mayos phone text slippery dolphin ran dolphin that our friendship was officially over and she still wouldn’t stop so we reported it to the office and now me and mayo are trying to ignore her so Aita (event is still currently happening so I might add on)

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Reply 1

I have no idea, because you've posted a wall of unreadable text with no punctuation or paragraphs. Try again?

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by Surnia
I have no idea, because you've posted a wall of unreadable text with no punctuation or paragraphs. Try again?

My bad I have horrible grammar.💀😭

Reply 3

hi no u did the right thing we hate slippery dolphin over here xxxx

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by Anonymous
hi no u did the right thing we hate slippery dolphin over here xxxx

lol mayo would be happy to hear we have a fellow slippery dolphin hater

Reply 5

not the ******* you did the right thing, also love these names LOL x

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by Ilikehellokitty
I have known this girl since 6th grade we’re gonna call her slippery dolphin because why not. So me and slippery dolphin met in 6th grade in 8th period math class and we were talking about and laughing and I drew a heart on her arm and she didn’t like the heart and scribbled all over my face with permanent marker I was so shocked then I just ran to the bathroom and cried a teacher noticed me and helped me get the marker off and then we went to the counselors and she was just told to say sorry and we went back to class 2 months later we became friends over common interests and having many classes together a year passed and we were chill we didn’t talk much but we were chill 7th grade eventually started and we got pretty close with each other and one day my best friend friend was like you guys should date and after thinking about it I was like sure and we started dating (yes I like guys and girls if you have enough room in your life for that kind of hate just leave) me and slippery dolphin lasted 2 months and during the relationship she would steal and would hit anyone who would try to hug me or have a conversation with me she was very obsessive and after the breakup she would mock me and harass me and my friends but after a week she cooled down and we continued our friendship then 8th grade started and we had a new friend we will call lord farquad slippery dolphin would hit me and lord farquad and get mad if we didn’t do what she said until eventually we talked about it and she agreed to stop but after she stopped lord farquad started talking behind my back with slippery dolphin I read their texts and slippery dolphin would actually side with me so our friendship continued now we are in 9th grade and I have a new friend we will call mayo slippery dolphin acted pretty normal the beginning of 9th grade until a month into the school year she started pushing mayo and shaking mayo and making tiny insults at mayo one day I got a cookie for slippery dolphin and mayo texted slippery dolphin that she ate the cookie as a joke and slippery dolphin just went full off on her cussing her out telling her to kill herself till lunch mayo was walking with her tray when slippery dolphin ran up to her smacked the tray out of her hand and cussed her out some nice girls helped mayo clean up the mess as teachers rushed her down to the office and mayo got a new tray but as lunch was happening slippery dolphin spammed mayos phone saying how much she hated mayo and to the point where I had to take mayos phone text slippery dolphin ran dolphin that our friendship was officially over and she still wouldn’t stop so we reported it to the office and now me and mayo are trying to ignore her so Aita (event is still currently happening so I might add on)

mayo is at fault ,not slippery dolphin

Reply 7

Slippery Dolphin needs to grow some fins no.1 slippery dolphin hater here

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by Anonymous
not the ******* you did the right thing, also love these names LOL x

Thanks lol

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by shameless! ⚝⋆。
Slippery Dolphin needs to grow some fins no.1 slippery dolphin hater here

Real

Reply 10

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by Ilikehellokitty
Thanks lol

update??

Reply 11

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by Anonymous
update??

UPDATE me and mayo gave slippery dolphin a choice she could ether show us that she’s improving with time or just completely give up on our friendship. The only reason I’m agreeing to this is because mayo really misses her. Is this the right thing to do?

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by Ilikehellokitty
UPDATE me and mayo gave slippery dolphin a choice she could ether show us that she’s improving with time or just completely give up on our friendship. The only reason I’m agreeing to this is because mayo really misses her. Is this the right thing to do?

yea i think it's a good idea. just make sure to set boundaries and tell slippery dolphin (great name btw lol) to not physically touch either of you (pushing, hitting is not ok unless its harmless banter which is prob not the case here). also slippery dolphin may still have feelings for you? so clear that up or it may become toxic yk

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by Anonymous
yea i think it's a good idea. just make sure to set boundaries and tell slippery dolphin (great name btw lol) to not physically touch either of you (pushing, hitting is not ok unless its harmless banter which is prob not the case here). also slippery dolphin may still have feelings for you? so clear that up or it may become toxic yk

Well she has a boyfriend named Ryan and yes that’s his real name he’s annoying and I don’t care to hide his identity

Reply 14

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by Ilikehellokitty
Well she has a boyfriend named Ryan and yes that’s his real name he’s annoying and I don’t care to hide his identity

so it may be better now? as she wont be jealous abt mayo anymore. just make sure 2 set up clear boundaries with her and the end the friendship if she gets physically aggressive again. gl!!

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by Anonymous
so it may be better now? as she wont be jealous abt mayo anymore. just make sure 2 set up clear boundaries with her and the end the friendship if she gets physically aggressive again. gl!!

(GIANT UPDATE) I gave mayo a cute 3D printed spider and slippery dolphin completely lost it and told mayo she was stealing it at the end of class. The bell rings and slippery dolphin started shaking mayo violently and as we were walking down the stairs slippery dolphin pushed mayo down and searched through evrey thing and couldn’t find it. We walked outside the whole time slippery dolphin is complaining saying “it’s just a dumb 3D spider give it now mayo says no because it was hers . We are outside and there’s a staircase outside and slippery dolphin launches mayos backpack down the stairs then jumps on it and stomps it continuously. Mayo was shaking a bit and was a bit scared of slippery dolphin so I walked her to my moms friends car and explained it to my moms friend and the whole time slippery dolphin is screaming “I won’t hurt her stop being dramatic my moms friend was a bit shaken and let mayo in and slippery dolphin still had mayos stuff so slippery dolphin threw mayos bag down and gave it one last stomp before walking away. My moms friend drove slippery dolphin back to the front of the school where teachers are nearby. My moms friend thought mayo was already out of the car but she was still grabbing her stuff so my moms friend ran over her shoe by accident almost hurting her foot . My moms friend apologized profusely but mayo said it was fine she wasn’t hurt just shaken from what slippery dolphin did so my moms friend drove away and now mayos mom wants a meeting with slippery dolphin and her dad because of her psycho behavior. We are shocked and don’t necessarily know what to do anymore . As 14 year olds it’s not everyday this happens.

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by Anonymous
mayo is at fault ,not slippery dolphin

How?

Reply 17

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by Ilikehellokitty
(GIANT UPDATE) I gave mayo a cute 3D printed spider and slippery dolphin completely lost it and told mayo she was stealing it at the end of class. The bell rings and slippery dolphin started shaking mayo violently and as we were walking down the stairs slippery dolphin pushed mayo down and searched through evrey thing and couldn’t find it. We walked outside the whole time slippery dolphin is complaining saying “it’s just a dumb 3D spider give it now mayo says no because it was hers . We are outside and there’s a staircase outside and slippery dolphin launches mayos backpack down the stairs then jumps on it and stomps it continuously. Mayo was shaking a bit and was a bit scared of slippery dolphin so I walked her to my moms friends car and explained it to my moms friend and the whole time slippery dolphin is screaming “I won’t hurt her stop being dramatic my moms friend was a bit shaken and let mayo in and slippery dolphin still had mayos stuff so slippery dolphin threw mayos bag down and gave it one last stomp before walking away. My moms friend drove slippery dolphin back to the front of the school where teachers are nearby. My moms friend thought mayo was already out of the car but she was still grabbing her stuff so my moms friend ran over her shoe by accident almost hurting her foot . My moms friend apologized profusely but mayo said it was fine she wasn’t hurt just shaken from what slippery dolphin did so my moms friend drove away and now mayos mom wants a meeting with slippery dolphin and her dad because of her psycho behavior. We are shocked and don’t necessarily know what to do anymore . As 14 year olds it’s not everyday this happens.

omfg...thats insane. slippery dolphin crossed to boundary and is too jealous/toxic. tell her it's over and that u don't want to talk to her again. make sure mayo's alright and continue with her (slippery dolphin is way too controlling and toxic)

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by Anonymous
omfg...thats insane. slippery dolphin crossed to boundary and is too jealous/toxic. tell her it's over and that u don't want to talk to her again. make sure mayo's alright and continue with her (slippery dolphin is way too controlling and toxic)

Yea yesterday she said if she cant have me no one can we used to date and I think she has some left over feelings but if I’m being honest I really like mayo more than a friend iykyk

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by Ilikehellokitty
Yea yesterday she said if she cant have me no one can we used to date and I think she has some left over feelings but if I’m being honest I really like mayo more than a friend iykyk

i rly suggest ending the friendship

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