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Should I continue this relationship?

Me and my boyfriend of 3weeks are in a long distance relationship.we used to talk more often but now i feel like he’s being distant towards me.one time he didn’t reply for the whole day and just said he forgot because he was playing Mincraft. I have no problem with him playing games because I do the same but I atleast want him to reply within the span of a hour or two. He used to be more flirty but now he’s being a bit naunchulant. We used to say I love you all the time but when I said I love you he didn’t say it back but I brushed it off. I just feel like he isn’t being as flirty and loving as he was but I could be wrong and just be overthinking evreything because I’m known for that. I really do love him but what if he dosent feel the same. I know we only have been together for 3 weeks so that’s why I feel like I’m overthinking it. Any advice?
(edited 2 months ago)

Reply 1

My advice for u is that don’t overthink. Just communicate with him . Tell him whatever is bothering u . I am also in a long distance relationship.

Reply 2

Original post by Juwon Oluwabu
My advice for u is that don’t overthink. Just communicate with him . Tell him whatever is bothering u . I am also in a long distance relationship.

Thank you

Reply 3

U are welcome so where are u from

Reply 4

hey i recently got out of a 2 year long distance relationship that ended because he 1) was too obsessed with video games and put them above us spending time together in the end, and 2) he also stopped flirting or saying loving things back
take it from me, if these cracks show up early rather than later, its a blessing. Have a chat to him, if he is disinsterested or makes a fuss of it (my ex got frustrated with me just asking to hang out more sometimes), break up. save your own heart.

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
hey i recently got out of a 2 year long distance relationship that ended because he 1) was too obsessed with video games and put them above us spending time together in the end, and 2) he also stopped flirting or saying loving things back
take it from me, if these cracks show up early rather than later, its a blessing. Have a chat to him, if he is disinsterested or makes a fuss of it (my ex got frustrated with me just asking to hang out more sometimes), break up. save your own heart.

Just communicate with him

Reply 6

Original post by Juwon Oluwabu
Just communicate with him

that sounds good but if he starts being frustrated or in any way does not want to communicate back, do not keep putting yourself through that. trust me, its a cycle. End it.

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
that sounds good but if he starts being frustrated or in any way does not want to communicate back, do not keep putting yourself through that. trust me, its a cycle. End it.

Don’t force love

Reply 8

Original post by Juwon Oluwabu
U are welcome so where are u from

Wv sorry I can’t chat because I haven’t been on this app for 3 days yet

Reply 9

how old are you OP

Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
how old are you OP

14 it’s in my bio

Reply 11

Original post by Ilikehellokitty
Me and my boyfriend of 3weeks are in a long distance relationship.we used to talk more often but now i feel like he’s being distant towards me.one time he didn’t reply for the whole day and just said he forgot because he was playing Mincraft. I have no problem with him playing games because I do the same but I atleast want him to reply within the span of a hour or two. He used to be more flirty but now he’s being a bit naunchulant. We used to say I love you all the time but when I said I love you he didn’t say it back but I brushed it off. I just feel like he isn’t being as flirty and loving as he was but I could be wrong and just be overthinking evreything because I’m known for that. I really do love him but what if he dosent feel the same. I know we only have been together for 3 weeks so that’s why I feel like I’m overthinking it. Any advice?

To me, that's barely worth the definition of a "relationship".

Reply 12

It seems like he’s not as interested as before. He’s replying less, not as flirty, and didn’t say “I love you” back. Talk to him about how you feel. If he keeps being distant, think about whether this relationship makes you happy.

Reply 13

Original post by Ilikehellokitty
Wv sorry I can’t chat because I haven’t been on this app for 3 days yet

Is fine

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