Should i confess?

I have been friends with her for a while and unfortunately I caught feelings worst part about it is she has a boyfriend (Their relationship is kind of rocky). I know its a scummy thing to do but I just want to get it over with and I feel like I would move on quicker then just ghosting her.

I rarely crush on people like I've only had 2 so I am actually awful when it comes to this LMAOO

Reply 1

Idk23323_school

I’d say go for it, if you feel like you’ll succeed, do it and hopefully they also have a crush on you. I also need some advice

Reply 2

anosmianAcrimony

Sounds like a great way to make things unnecessarily complicated and messy. She's already in a relationship. If you care about her, don't mess things up for her. Just do the difficult thing, be the bigger person, and move on. Doing so is an essential life skill you will need to develop sooner or later.

Reply 3

Zarek

I wouldn’t. As you say it’s dishonourable and it will be embarrassing and uncomfortable to be rejected in these circumstances.

See if she becomes single again and weigh up your chances then. If you really don’t think it’s on the cards it’s much better for self esteem to skip a rejection. Happily there is not just one adorable girl, there are many