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I feel really bad now I've thought about it more, my boyfriend was coming to pick me up after work at 10pm and I usually wait outside the store in the carpark, he was at his parents which is down the road. I said bye to my colleagues and 2 of them which are guys asked if I was waiting for my lift and I said I was waiting for my boyfriend he's only a few mins away and they said they would stay until he got there. My boyfriend came and now all I can think of is he saw me with 2 other guys waiting for him to come instead of just walking upto where is parents live. I feel wrong about it the more I think as I just wasn't thinking. How would you feel as a boyfriend and I feel like I did but was that the wrong thing to do?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

I don't think you should beat yourself up about this, your colleagues were just making sure you're safe and not alone late at night, so I'm sure if you have a chat with your boyfriend and put it into that perspective he will appreciate that you were safe and not alone.

Reply 2

Zarek

I don’t see what the issue is. Unless you secretly fancy the pants off one of them

Reply 3

Admit-One

Universities Forum Helper

Likewise, I don’t really understand what the concern is.

Presumably your BF knows that you work and interact with guys? Surely a good thing that they were empathetic enough not to want you hanging around by yourself at night.