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From what you've said above, it sounds like there might be some interest on his side (saying this as a guy who can relate to some of his reactions). If you're worried about how things will be if you confess your feelings, leaving it until leaver's day might be an ok strat since if he doesn't reciprocate, you'd have the summer to move on and hopefully by the time you start 6th form, you'd both be ready to move on as friends.

yeah im gonna take your advice on the last day of skl because I'll have the summer to move on and also, what reactions can you relate to and why do guys do this???

yeah im gonna take your advice on the last day of skl because I'll have the summer to move on and also, what reactions can you relate to and why do guys do this???

Do you want to ask him for prom ?

him calling every male you've spoken to a "weirdo" is him being jealous

When I was this age I experienced a general awkwardness around girls that I was interested in. His 'defensiveness' when you asked if he was going to prom with someone but then acting the next day as if nothing had happened is relatable to me as this would certainly be how that manifested. It might be that he's shy or uncomfortable about being open about romantic involvement.
I'm not sure if acting like this is normal for all guys or only guys of a certain character, and it might not even be intentional (and if it is intentional, he may not even realise how it's coming across for you). Don't forget that many boys/young men are terrible at taking hints and he could well just be acting like this because he's not sure you're interested and doesn't want to take a rejection.

oh that makes so much more sense, it would make sense why he would be defensive too he is a guy after all I think my problem is, It seems like I show NO interest AT ALL but that's because I find it awkward even though it shouldn't be. I think I need to talk to him more.

ask him who his crush is lol. i want an update!! good luck )

hey so update: yesterday i thought it was funny to make a fake account and act like a guy and telling him that someone has a crush on him. well I asked who his type was and he said he likes anyone that has a good personality. then he made his bsf add the ACC and I'm close to his bsf so I told him and that I like him and stuff but today at break he was telling me a bunch of things that I was NOT expecting him to do then he said these are all rumours so u can't rely on them but him and his gf are both still willing to help me out

lolol the fake account 😂. not judging tho cuz that sounds exactly like smth I wud do as I could never tell my crush face-to-face that I like them haha. anyway ask his bsf to ask ur crush what he thinks of u or smth. maybe his bsf could casually mention he ships u guys and that might make him take the hint? gl and give me an update if there is onee

hmmm..ask his bsf to suggest u for the relationship (like i said, ship u both) and see what he says abt that? if he responds 2 that in a positive way, maybe then talk to him directly and say that u heard that he likes u. then go from there maybe??

Here's an idea: why doesn't his bsf suggest that y'all go out somewhere together (a sort of double date but not an official date). It might give you the opportunity to spend time with him away from school and gauge his level of interest in you. Bowling or mini golf or something could be good as it also gives you all an activity to participate in in case the conversation wanes.

hmmm ill definitely consider that. i need to ask his bsf for any updates so ill update you soon!