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Why would my GP do this?

Kind of looking for female insights here. I went to get my ears checked. Thus was some time ago but I've never asked on here and am very perplexed. Of course I am discreet and would never talk about it to anyone else. My female GP is quite taciturn and stern and not overly 'nice' as such usually but nevertheless still seems a very caring, sincere, compassionate person. If that makes sense. She was pregnant heavily.
As I sat on the chair she walked over, grabbed by hair quite decisevly to steady by head with one hand, then poked the torch or whatever into my ear. Whilst she gripped my hair she began pressing her vaginal area onto my hand which was gripping the side of the chair. This lasted pretty long and I didn't want to move my hand as frankly I was flattered and I'm attracted to her. At the same time I really wanted to do more to show her I'm interested,not just physically but emotionally too. But the other part of my brain is saying no, not because she's my doctor but because she's pregnant. I figure she's 'taken' because of that. But now I think I should have gone for it, maybe the father isn't around. And i really like her physically but on an emotional liking level too. Please dont do some aggressive response telling me I'm a fantasist or something because I have no reason to waste my time. It's true. I'm just really looking for female insights on her behaviour. Is it just the hormones of pregnancy that make women act in ways they wouldn't normally? Hence write it off.... Or is it more complex than that? Please AMA and offer and insights you have.

Reply 1

The doctor was working and you have misinterpreted her actions. If you make an approach to her, you can expect to be looking for a new GP. Don't be a creep.

Reply 2

I feel that by asking people not to aggressively call you delusional you already know that's the likely reply.

Reply 3

Incels gonna incel!

Reply 4

ew, imagine blaming her for your creepines.

Reply 5

Woman here; You are a gross person. focusing so much on her vag area touching you while shes just checking your ears??? wtf is wrong with you dude
next time, request a male doctor (if you are straight) so you dont act like this. weird ****.

Reply 6

also "female hormones" making her act differently?? bro you are actually disgusting, female hormones dont do anythiing to someone working their stressful job? You are sexualising a pregnant doctor, take a step back for a second and rethink yourself... god some men are actually disgusting

Reply 7

Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson and all that lot have infected the minds of many young men. Misogyny is rampant.

Reply 8

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by Stiffy Byng
Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson and all that lot have infected the minds of many young men. Misogyny is rampant.
literally... as a woman i hope all women out there avoid men like these, no one should have to suffer this level of misogyny. imagine being a man in this day and age, where we know more about the opposite sex and how we are all just ******* human, and still objectifying a ******* doctor doing their job? i wish this man never posted this comment online its actually ruined my day. i work in retail and get flirted with so often that it really ****es me off, im trying to do my job and earn money and these men (not all men but ALWAYS men) think its fine to flirt with a girl who cant do anything because shes stuck at work and supposed to be nice as their a customer?
more men need to think with their heads not with their penises.

Reply 9

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by Anonymous
literally... as a woman i hope all women out there avoid men like these, no one should have to suffer this level of misogyny. imagine being a man in this day and age, where we know more about the opposite sex and how we are all just ******* human, and still objectifying a ******* doctor doing their job? i wish this man never posted this comment online its actually ruined my day. i work in retail and get flirted with so often that it really ****es me off, im trying to do my job and earn money and these men (not all men but ALWAYS men) think its fine to flirt with a girl who cant do anything because shes stuck at work and supposed to be nice as their a customer?
more men need to think with their heads not with their penises.

Tbh I suspect they're just looking to get a reaction.

Reply 10

Misogyny appears to have worsened in the last decade or two. It would be good to think that the OP will stop being such a creep, but we can't be optimistic about that.

Reply 11

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by StriderHort
Tbh I suspect they're just looking to get a reaction.

Yes, and/or the sad little loser got off by posting his sordid fantasy here.

Reply 12

This was extremely disturbing to read as a woman. Idk how old you are OP or how much experience you have had with women, but maybe go to therapy. This is repulsive.

Reply 13

Original post
by Anonymous
Kind of looking for female insights here. I went to get my ears checked. Thus was some time ago but I've never asked on here and am very perplexed. Of course I am discreet and would never talk about it to anyone else. My female GP is quite taciturn and stern and not overly 'nice' as such usually but nevertheless still seems a very caring, sincere, compassionate person. If that makes sense. She was pregnant heavily.
As I sat on the chair she walked over, grabbed by hair quite decisevly to steady by head with one hand, then poked the torch or whatever into my ear. Whilst she gripped my hair she began pressing her vaginal area onto my hand which was gripping the side of the chair. This lasted pretty long and I didn't want to move my hand as frankly I was flattered and I'm attracted to her. At the same time I really wanted to do more to show her I'm interested,not just physically but emotionally too. But the other part of my brain is saying no, not because she's my doctor but because she's pregnant. I figure she's 'taken' because of that. But now I think I should have gone for it, maybe the father isn't around. And i really like her physically but on an emotional liking level too. Please dont do some aggressive response telling me I'm a fantasist or something because I have no reason to waste my time. It's true. I'm just really looking for female insights on her behaviour. Is it just the hormones of pregnancy that make women act in ways they wouldn't normally? Hence write it off.... Or is it more complex than that? Please AMA and offer and insights you have.

Quoting the opening post, as it's the sort of post that OP's tend to delete, rendering a thread unintelligible.

Reply 14

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by springthing
This was extremely disturbing to read as a woman. Idk how old you are OP or how much experience you have had with women, but maybe go to therapy. This is repulsive.

Referring to a pregnant woman as "taken" indicates a medieval mindset. It is depressing that some men still think of women as property.

Reply 15

Female insight - she was just doing her job without a second thought and your hormones made you misinterpret the situation. Get over yourself - she is not interested in a horny teenager, and certainly wouldn't put her job at risk by coming on to you.

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