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Is it bad to fantasise like this

hi! need advice
my boyfriend and I work 20-40 hours a week (him more!) and we barely see each other as we're 1hour away, we sometimes see each other at work but obviously just act professional...
Ive always been the one to ask about dates, and often times he's cancelled out (he does have good reason and I have expressed that it makes me upset).

Now, three months in and i find myself fantasising about us more than we are actually together. I pretend kissing him with my hand, i imagine date scenarios, I just imagine his face! I realise that im doing this and Im starting to worry that thats unhealthy? as its substituting actual time together? We still message often but just dont get in-person time to talk freely. And how do i stop myself daydreaming about him? I love him a lot but im starting to build a fake picture of him?