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Big Lad, Little Problem

So i gotta ask because it’s driving me crazy after getting way too many looks in a bathhouse in europe. i’m a 21 year old lad, i’m 6’2, i play rugby (so im needy but pretty strong 😅) and ive been told im pretty good looking.

Problem is, ive got kind of a small willy. it’s about 2” soft and 4” hard and even though i get **** for it from my teammates i didn’t think it was that bad til i was naked at this swimming centre in germany and every guy there was bigger than me. these younger guys even smirked and laughed at me and i overheard someone say i was clearly “overcompensating”.

is it really that big a deal? what’s so funny about it??

Reply 1

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by Anonymous
So i gotta ask because it’s driving me crazy after getting way too many looks in a bathhouse in europe. i’m a 21 year old lad, i’m 6’2, i play rugby (so im needy but pretty strong 😅) and ive been told im pretty good looking.
Problem is, ive got kind of a small willy. it’s about 2” soft and 4” hard and even though i get **** for it from my teammates i didn’t think it was that bad til i was naked at this swimming centre in germany and every guy there was bigger than me. these younger guys even smirked and laughed at me and i overheard someone say i was clearly “overcompensating”.
is it really that big a deal? what’s so funny about it??

youre height makes up for it, you'll be okay

Reply 2

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by Stupidwebsiegon
youre height makes up for it, you'll be okay

you think so? thanks dude. i’m glad it doesn’t matter

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
you think so? thanks dude. i’m glad it doesn’t matter

yes and youre welcome

Reply 4

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by Stupidwebsiegon
youre height makes up for it, you'll be okay

Very true there... and looks

Reply 5

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by EllieDaysx
Very true there... and looks

so it doesn’t matter to you that my ***** kinda small?

Reply 6

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by Anonymous
so it doesn’t matter to you that my ***** kinda small?

why would it matter to a random person on the internet?

Reply 7

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by black tea
why would it matter to a random person on the internet?

I think they mean generally

Reply 8

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by black tea
why would it matter to a random person on the internet?

they were asking a specific person

Reply 9

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by black tea
they were asking a specific person

yeah but they probably mean not specifically to that person but in general

Reply 10

well yeah i just mean generally like is it really that funny seeing a big guy with a little **** yknow

Reply 11

straight woman here, 4inches is enough trust me. its enough to suck, its enough to have fun with down there. we can get off using our fingers which arent even 4inches probably, so youre fine. people that claim bigger is better likely have sex too often and become desensitized, or focus too much on societal insecurities.

Reply 12

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by Anonymous
straight woman here, 4inches is enough trust me. its enough to suck, its enough to have fun with down there. we can get off using our fingers which arent even 4inches probably, so youre fine. people that claim bigger is better likely have sex too often and become desensitized, or focus too much on societal insecurities.

Thanks! thats a big relief. at least girls don’t really care about it. maybe its just a lads thing to make jokes about then 😅

Reply 13

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by Anonymous
Thanks! thats a big relief. at least girls don’t really care about it. maybe its just a lads thing to make jokes about then 😅


Gay man here, though sure you don’t need this, but we wouldn’t care either. it’s the motion of the ocean yk? plus there’s so much more you can do than just penetrative. Even my gfs would say they’re not rly bothered either.

Reply 14

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by Anonymous
Gay man here, though sure you don’t need this, but we wouldn’t care either. it’s the motion of the ocean yk? plus there’s so much more you can do than just penetrative. Even my gfs would say they’re not rly bothered either.

you really think so? cus my gay friend is always talking about how much he loves like 7, 8, even 9 inches and im like damn i didn’t even think they got that big 🤣😩

Reply 15

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by Anonymous
you really think so? cus my gay friend is always talking about how much he loves like 7, 8, even 9 inches and im like damn i didn’t even think they got that big 🤣😩


yes, ‘size queens’ exist - but it’s takes us a lot longer to ‘prepare’ for them if you get me… smaller ones do the job and require much less work - most of my girlies(my gays) would say the same.

Reply 16

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by Anonymous
yes, ‘size queens’ exist - but it’s takes us a lot longer to ‘prepare’ for them if you get me… smaller ones do the job and require much less work - most of my girlies(my gays) would say the same.

wow that’s a relief man. i guess it’s just other lads making jokes about my willy rather than like a sexual thing. good to know it doesn’t matter when it really matters 😉😅

Reply 17

i have issues with being very shallow inside, so big guys are a problem for me.

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