How do I get his attention, once and for all?
There is a really popular guy in my school, he is always surrounded by girls and boys alike, I am really interested in him, how can I fully attract him? Thanks 16/F
Reply 1
Original post by Anonymous
There is a really popular guy in my school, he is always surrounded by girls and boys alike, I am really interested in him, how can I fully attract him? Thanks 16/F
To get acquainted, try this:
Small steps: It is not necessary to take big steps right away.
Chat casually.
Join groups. Group activities: Take the pressure off. You can calm down and observe how he/she behaves with other people.
If you like the same things, you can find something to chat about.
Ask open questions: this is how to steer the conversation to be more about you. Make him talk about himself. Show him that you are interested.
Let him talk: And really listen and engage him when he does. Indicate that you are interested in whatever he is saying.
Use body language: smile, make eye contact, and avoid crossing your arms. It indicates that you are friendly and engaged.
Things to Keep in Mind:
Give him space: If he’s not getting into it, back off and respect that.
Avoid treating him like he's superior; he's not.
Try to connect: true attraction occurs when you get to know a boy.
Keep cool: It takes time to make something. Don’t force it.
Consider just how much you like him: do you like him, or is it simply because he’s popular?
Ensure you’re attracted to his personality, not just his status. The important thing is to be real and connect with people for real.
Kind regards from Italy.
Sandro
Reply 2
Yes Sandro, one thngs Í forgot that he already offed me one time bsically told me to fk off as he has better girl, how do i recover? Do i just dress sluttier or somethings?
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
Yes Sandro, one thngs Í forgot that he already offed me one time bsically told me to fk off as he has better girl, how do i recover? Do i just dress sluttier or somethings?
Sounds like you should find someone who appreciates you rather than chasing this guy. His loss, not yours!
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
Yes Sandro, one thngs Í forgot that he already offed me one time bsically told me to fk off as he has better girl, how do i recover? Do i just dress sluttier or somethings?
I get that you're hurting and ticked off because of what he did. Seriously, no one should talk to you like that. Telling you to F-off is just plain wrong.
Instead of trying to fix things by changing yourself – like, what you wear or something – you should really think about your own self-respect and how you're doing. Him being rude says a lot more about him than it does about you. People who are ill-mannered do this.
Thing is, you shouldn't let anyone else decide how much you're worth. Work on feeling good about yourself. Spend time with folks who like you for who you really are. Get rid of the person who said that.
Think of it this way: If someone offers you a sandwich with dirt on it, you wouldn't eat it, right? So, don't eat or take in someone else's bad opinion of you either. You get to decide what you consume.
Focus on the things you're good at, the stuff you enjoy, and the people who lift you up. Maybe take up a new hobby, volunteer for something you care about, or just spend more time doing things that make you happy.
Also, it might help to talk to someone about how you're feeling. A close friend, family member can lend an ear and offer some helpful advice. Sometimes, just getting your feelings out in the open can make a big difference.
Don't let this one person bring you down.
You're awesome, and you deserve to be treated with respect. Remember that!
Ciao,
Sandro
Original post by Anonymous
Yes Sandro, one thngs Í forgot that he already offed me one time bsically told me to fk off as he has better girl, how do i recover? Do i just dress sluttier or somethings?
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
Yes Sandro, one thngs Í forgot that he already offed me one time bsically told me to fk off as he has better girl, how do i recover? Do i just dress sluttier or somethings?
noo dont EVER change yourself for someone elses approval!! if you dont like how you are, go ahead and change the things youre unhappy with, but NEVER change for someone else especially for romantic purposes because you will regret it- the second they’re gone you’ll regret not being yourself.
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