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My bf cheate on me and got another girl pregnent

I’m f 15 my bf m16 cheated on me when we were together and ended up getting my bsf pregnent idk what to do now any advice

Reply 1

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by Hayleighthebest
I’m f 15 my bf m16 cheated on me when we were together and ended up getting my bsf pregnent idk what to do now any advice

Break up
Not much to dwell on here. Break up and meet some respectful people.

Reply 3

First, I am so, so sorry. You are so very young at least here, you are legally deemed incapable of consenting to a physical relationship rather than a purely emotional one (and the man would certainly be guilty of a form of rape, the Scots age of consent is 16 (which I think is far too low). I don’t think it’s always prosecuted at 15 with only a year’s difference, but I beg you not to for a great many other reasons of health) and it is clear you have been taken advantage of.

I strongly advise against a “relationship” at all so very young, you are neither physically nor mentally nor again psychologically an adult and it’s a car crash waiting to happen.

Your former young man has made his life an utter ruin by his bad behaviour and clearly had not a shred of self respect nor respect for others.

Be well rid of him and throw yourself into life, friends and studies, not the wreckage you have so narrowly avoided. You are actually really rather lucky.
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Reply 4

Original post
by Hayleighthebest
I’m f 15 my bf m16 cheated on me when we were together and ended up getting my bsf pregnent idk what to do now any advice

Sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated on you. Cut contact with him and break up.

Reply 5

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by Lophocolea
First, I am so, so sorry. You are so very young at least here, you are legally deemed incapable of consenting to a physical relationship rather than a purely emotional one (and the man would certainly be guilty of a form of rape, the Scots age of consent is 16 (which I think is far too low). I don’t think it’s always prosecuted at 15 with only a year’s difference, but I beg you not to for a great many other reasons of health) and it is clear you have been taken advantage of.
I strongly advise against a “relationship” at all so very young, you are neither physically nor mentally nor again psychologically an adult and it’s a car crash waiting to happen.
Your former young man has made his life an utter ruin by his bad behaviour and clearly had not a shred of self respect nor respect for others.
Be well rid of him and throw yourself into life, friends and studies, not the wreckage you have so narrowly avoided. You are actually really rather lucky.

Ty

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