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Unsure if I’m Bi

Hi has anyone ever been through this. I know I like men 100% but I also look at women and think there beautiful etc. but one minute I feel like I’d date them then the next I don’t it’s all so confusing and it really upsets me that i don’t know how to feel etc.(don’t get me wrong I support and love everyone in the lgbtq+ community) but I myself get overwhelmed and convince myself it’s wrong cause so many people deem it that way perhaps that’s me being scared idk. Did anyone else experience that. Anyway I guess what I’m trying to say is I’m struggling with understating who I am and if I am bi or whatever cause when people ask I say I’m straight but I have these thoughts and feelings.

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Original post by Anonymous
Hi has anyone ever been through this. I know I like men 100% but I also look at women and think there beautiful etc. but one minute I feel like I’d date them then the next I don’t it’s all so confusing and it really upsets me that i don’t know how to feel etc.(don’t get me wrong I support and love everyone in the lgbtq+ community) but I myself get overwhelmed and convince myself it’s wrong cause so many people deem it that way perhaps that’s me being scared idk. Did anyone else experience that. Anyway I guess what I’m trying to say is I’m struggling with understating who I am and if I am bi or whatever cause when people ask I say I’m straight but I have these thoughts and feelings.

well dont be stressed on finding an answer ! if you really do like a girl romantically at some point, you would find yourself have some sort of feelings that are different towards a girl whos just pretty and attractive, thats how i realise im bi lol haha but dont feel the need to have an answer immediately , the answer will come :smile:

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