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Does she like me?

Today I caught a woman I like looking at me and when she knew I caught her looking at me she quickly looks down and smiles/blushes what does this usually mean? We have a little bit of history (not dating). In the past she rejected me but I was told after by one of her friends she recently broke up with her ex. I've been told by her friends that she likes me a couple of times. However, when I tried to talk to her again to ask her out she did not keep any eye contact said she didn't want to talk in a abrupt way and rushed her friends out, after one of her friends told me "I don't think she wants anything"- that was a couple weeks ago. Her friends however keep looking at me (it kind of makes me a bit uncomfortable but I don't really care). What do you think I should do/ not do, I really like her.

Reply 1

There’s nothing doing here from what you describe. She’s rejected you and it’s uncomfortable when you see her. This situation doesn’t tend to turn around, however much you want it to. The best bet is to look for someone who is enthusiastic. Thankfully there’s not just one adorable girl, there are many

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by Zarek
There’s nothing doing here from what you describe. She’s rejected you and it’s uncomfortable when you see her. This situation doesn’t tend to turn around, however much you want it to. The best bet is to look for someone who is enthusiastic. Thankfully there’s not just one adorable girl, there are many

Its really annoying when I've heard she likes me (before I even began liking her), she shows signs of liking me; she told her friend that the reason why she walked off was because she had a "nervous overload and also because I kind of awkwardly appeared behind her, it scared her". Should I wait a few more months and try again if she and her friends keep looking and me and telling me she likes me?

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by Anonymous
Its really annoying when I've heard she likes me (before I even began liking her), she shows signs of liking me; she told her friend that the reason why she walked off was because she had a "nervous overload and also because I kind of awkwardly appeared behind her, it scared her". Should I wait a few more months and try again if she and her friends keep looking and me and telling me she likes me?

No it’s not going to workout anytime. Follow my excellent advice

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by Anonymous
Today I caught a woman I like looking at me and when she knew I caught her looking at me she quickly looks down and smiles/blushes what does this usually mean? We have a little bit of history (not dating). In the past she rejected me but I was told after by one of her friends she recently broke up with her ex. I've been told by her friends that she likes me a couple of times. However, when I tried to talk to her again to ask her out she did not keep any eye contact said she didn't want to talk in a abrupt way and rushed her friends out, after one of her friends told me "I don't think she wants anything"- that was a couple weeks ago. Her friends however keep looking at me (it kind of makes me a bit uncomfortable but I don't really care). What do you think I should do/ not do, I really like her.

womans perspective here, do not judge a girl by awkward gestures, it is creepy. just ask her directly, if she once more rejects you, move on. it can get really creepy for women to constantly be watched and judged for how we act around men and for men to take that to mean something romantic. and if you keep persisting on her romantically you will make her uncomfy. so askk one final time, and go from there.
you never know, if she does like you then she would probably rather you make the first move anyway, it sounds like she wont as she sounds a nervous/anxious type

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