My partner is being annoying
My partner and me had an argument (we are in the process of moving we don’t live together yet because he’s studying) but he thinks telling me to come at 9pm at night is normal when I think he’s disrespecting my time. I told him I don’t do nights because I get tired and I don’t like just sitting there for an hour as I like to be in my own comfort zone. He thinks I’m being selfish because he wants to talk to me and sort things out, I told him we can sort it out tomorrow in the right time. I’m not here for late nights I still live in my place and Im not coming for the sake of it, he always tries to fit me in his schedule and then says I never see him.
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So what’s your question?
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by Admit-OneSo what’s your question?
Am I in the wrong ?
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by AnonymousAm I in the wrong ?
No, not in the slightest.
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by AnonymousAm I in the wrong ?
you’re not in the wrong! it’s totally unreasonable for him to ask you to come round at 9pm? especially when you’ve just had an argument. the two of you need to sleep and then meet up somewhere in the afternoon (1-4pm ish) and speak then. when its late, you’re tired and sometimes not always in the right mind frame. try to explain it to him like that.
Your body clocks are incompatible.
If someone asked me to go somewhere at 9pm that wouldn't be a problem at all, as I rarely go to bed before 3am.
If someone asked me to go somewhere at 8am, that would be difficult.
You're a daytime person and he's clearly a night owl.
If someone asked me to go somewhere at 9pm that wouldn't be a problem at all, as I rarely go to bed before 3am.
If someone asked me to go somewhere at 8am, that would be difficult.
You're a daytime person and he's clearly a night owl.
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