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Good places to meet a partner?

Hi!
I feel like I’m finally in a really good place to find a relationship. I feel the best I have felt in myself in a long time, and I feel like I have so much capacity to give a potential partner.

I just don’t know where to look for him…

I struggle with the idea of dating apps, being a bit of a romantic I love the idea of meeting someone in person or being set up by friends. But I’m starting to come to the conclusion that my view of that might be a bit too rose tinted glasses?

I wanted to ask people for ideas of places I can go to meet potential partners. Im not exactly the most extraverted person in the world, but I am ready to put myself out there.

Any suggestions?

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
Hi!
I feel like I’m finally in a really good place to find a relationship. I feel the best I have felt in myself in a long time, and I feel like I have so much capacity to give a potential partner.
I just don’t know where to look for him…
I struggle with the idea of dating apps, being a bit of a romantic I love the idea of meeting someone in person or being set up by friends. But I’m starting to come to the conclusion that my view of that might be a bit too rose tinted glasses?
I wanted to ask people for ideas of places I can go to meet potential partners. Im not exactly the most extraverted person in the world, but I am ready to put myself out there.
Any suggestions?


Popworld nightclub, maybe someone working

Reply 2

Pop world is not where you find a partner for a relationship lol.

Go to clubs (as in, sports clubs, book clubs, whatever floats your boat). Ask your friends to meet up and see if they'll bring anyone along that's single and maybe you'll have luck. If you see a guy that you like then just give some small hints and he'll probably make a move on you and you'll be golden :smile:

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
Pop world is not where you find a partner for a relationship lol.
Go to clubs (as in, sports clubs, book clubs, whatever floats your boat). Ask your friends to meet up and see if they'll bring anyone along that's single and maybe you'll have luck. If you see a guy that you like then just give some small hints and he'll probably make a move on you and you'll be golden :smile:

Yeah I was about to say Popworld definitely doesn’t seem like the place 😂.
Think they may have been confusing me wanting a serious relationship with a kind of short term thing.

I think friends is probably a really good shout, I mean if they are mutual friends I guess we already have something in common! Thank you for your response!

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I was about to say Popworld definitely doesn’t seem like the place 😂.
Think they may have been confusing me wanting a serious relationship with a kind of short term thing.
I think friends is probably a really good shout, I mean if they are mutual friends I guess we already have something in common! Thank you for your response!


It's okay! As someone in a similar situation to you i understand how it can be a little frustrating. I think social media has hindered our collective ability to tolerate people but be friendly and people are happy to chat from what I've experienced

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
It's okay! As someone in a similar situation to you i understand how it can be a little frustrating. I think social media has hindered our collective ability to tolerate people but be friendly and people are happy to chat from what I've experienced

Yes! I completely agree, I have so many conflicting views about social media, people just don’t talk as much as they used to - and I have tried to make dating apps work out but I always end up finding people who want something really short term, and that just Isn’t for me.

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I was about to say Popworld definitely doesn’t seem like the place 😂.
Think they may have been confusing me wanting a serious relationship with a kind of short term thing.
I think friends is probably a really good shout, I mean if they are mutual friends I guess we already have something in common! Thank you for your response!


Sorry give me more context, are u looking for a guy or girl? Are u a guy or girl? What u looking for fr

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
Yes! I completely agree, I have so many conflicting views about social media, people just don’t talk as much as they used to - and I have tried to make dating apps work out but I always end up finding people who want something really short term, and that just Isn’t for me.


Absolutely agree - i relied on asking people out when I was at college a couple years ago before I took a couple of gap years but nothing worked out, it's so difficult to meet people unless you have friends to rely on though

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
Sorry give me more context, are u looking for a guy or girl? Are u a guy or girl? What u looking for fr

Im a woman, looking for a man and looking for a serious relationship. Something long-term.

Reply 9

Original post by Jayden04
Absolutely agree - i relied on asking people out when I was at college a couple years ago before I took a couple of gap years but nothing worked out, it's so difficult to meet people unless you have friends to rely on though

It really is, and my university course is so female heavy, so I have met like one or two guys over the past couple years and they have all been in relationships

Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
It really is, and my university course is so female heavy, so I have met like one or two guys over the past couple years and they have all been in relationships


Do you go to any societies or sports clubs maybe? Those are probably your best chance other than friends. Otherwise if you hang out at any cafes or are shopping then you'll be seeing lots of guys at least, that would probably be a good start i think

Reply 11

Original post by Anonymous
Do you go to any societies or sports clubs maybe? Those are probably your best chance other than friends. Otherwise if you hang out at any cafes or are shopping then you'll be seeing lots of guys at least, that would probably be a good start i think

Yeah I go to a couple societies (one sport one not). Cafes are a really good idea too especially University cafes I guess?

Reply 12

Original post by Anonymous
Yeah I go to a couple societies (one sport one not). Cafes are a really good idea too especially University cafes I guess?


Yeah they're usually chilled places, everyone is there for the same reason so it's not weird to talk or offer to hang out etc. I can't speak for uni cafes as I've only been to my uni bar with friends as I don't go to the uni officially until September lol

Reply 13

Original post by Anonymous
It really is, and my university course is so female heavy, so I have met like one or two guys over the past couple years and they have all been in relationships

You are already at the best place in the world for meeting people. Your university.
It's like one big informal family. Where you can talk to other students on campus, on your way to and from campus and at places where students hang out.

Once you've finished your studies, everywhere you go as part of you everyday life is the best place to meet someone. With the exception of work. Where certain professional standards should be applied.

Start breaking the ice with just about every other student you come across.

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