Regret

I regret getting close to this girl my age, we both had our dirty little secrets which we would indulge lightly in, low and behold we recognised each other and had some sort of weird friendship starting from there. However the more our ‘weird friendship’ progressed the more I come to regret it. We are both 20 ftm. Any good advice

Reply 1

HonestStudent

Original post by Anonymous

Which aspect do you regret? If you regret not getting with her, do something about it (consensually) now. Trust me. As long as you haven't harmed anyone, people generally regret the things they haven't done.

Reply 2

Jonah Ramone

My assumption is that the regret is about indulging in the 'weird' 'dirty secret' (some kind of fetish?). Just remember that if you don't want to continue to indulge in this you can stop. I agree with the above user in the sense that, if you've not harmed anyone then that's probably the main thing at this point and you can back away with a clear conscience.

Reply 3

HonestStudent

Original post by Jonah Ramone

You may be correct. Hard to tell when they don't post much information. If they have harmed anyone, they can be sorry, ask the harmed person(s) to forgive them, and try to make amends. Side note: If people and places (such as universities) actually did this, it would make the world a much better place. Not perfect as actions can't be undone, but much better.