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Confidence, comfort, communication, expression

I've been approaching and conversing with women with success.

These are the key recipes. You will have to practice a lot first.

Go out out there and converse.

Change how you view, hold yourself.

Improve your grooming, dress sense, hygiene, posture etc. Hit the gym.

Reply 1

Stiffy Byng

Well, at least you've got more hair than Andrew Tate.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

this is the perspective of someone who just wants to have sex with as many women as possible.

if you wanted to find a genuine partner on a deeper level, you would do all these things. AND emphasise the whole, you know... having a personality and not just being an alpha male gym bro? because thats not boyfriend material, thats sex once maybe twice but only sex material. you wont be someone a woman wants to date if your only focus is physical attraction, buddy. so terrible advice (i am a woman who values a lot more than confidence and physical fitness.. i want to be able to hold a conversation with someone who doesnt just treat me as a sex object).

Reply 3

Dunnig Kruger

Original post

by Anonymous

this is the perspective of someone who just wants to have sex with as many women as possible.
if you wanted to find a genuine partner on a deeper level, you would do all these things. AND emphasise the whole, you know... having a personality and not just being an alpha male gym bro? because thats not boyfriend material, thats sex once maybe twice but only sex material. you wont be someone a woman wants to date if your only focus is physical attraction, buddy. so terrible advice (i am a woman who values a lot more than confidence and physical fitness.. i want to be able to hold a conversation with someone who doesnt just treat me as a sex object).

I'm the opposite. I want long satisfying love making sessions with the women I have great conversations with. 🥰

Reply 4

Analyst89

I am seeking for a relationship.

I hope this helps.

I stress, you will have to put the work in.

Reply 5

Ciel.

man, straights really have it rough. all i need to do is go on grindr or to a gay club, and i have men bending over backwards just to get a taste.

Reply 6

Analyst89

Just go out there, practice, work on yourself psychology

Reply 7

Analyst89

Believe in yourself

Reply 8

Analyst89

I'm confident. I've practiced and my behaviours, sub communication body language show that.

Dress well, go to the gym.

I go up to them and talk.

Reply 9

Analyst89

You have to put the work in, buy some new well fitting clothes, groom well.

How you view, hold yourself.

Reply 10

Old Skool Freak

Original post

by Ciel.

man, straights really have it rough. all i need to do is go on grindr or to a gay club, and i have men bending over backwards just to get a taste.

I thought they'd be bending over forwards for you, no?!?: Or maybe kneeling

Still, give Manumission a call... I'm sure you could make a fortune over the summer 🤣

Reply 11

Ciel.

Original post

by Old Skool Freak

I thought they'd be bending over forwards for you, no?!?: Or maybe kneeling
Still, give Manumission a call... I'm sure you could make a fortune over the summer 🤣

true that
you've outcultured me, idk what manumission is : (

Reply 12

Old Skool Freak

Original post

by Ciel.

true that
you've outcultured me, idk what manumission is : (

Manumission was a famous club event / brand, that stems from the 90's / 00's (what many people consider the "golden-age" of clubbing). Although there were other similar brands that offered the same music, DJ's, vibe etc. such as Cream, Ministry of Sound, Gatecrashers etc. there were two things in particular that distinguished Manumission from the others, namely:-

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1) While the other brands all had established nights in UK cities, Manumission almost exclusively existed on the Spanish Balearic islands (Ibiza, in particular)

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2) They were famous for their live sex-acts that would go on during the club even (basically, swap Gogo dancers (i.e stage / podium dancers) for "courting couples" lol).

I could be wrong, but I think the latter point would class the event as an orgy under UK laws, which would probably cause all sorts of problems for them (both from a legal and branding perspective).

There's a very brief summary following the link below... but to get a true taste of the event, I suggest you do your own research on it (caveat:- it's probably NSFW).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manumission_(event)

Reply 13

Ciel.

Original post

by Old Skool Freak

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1) While the other brands all had established nights in UK cities, Manumission almost exclusively existed on the Spanish Balearic islands (Ibiza, in particular)

•

2) They were famous for their live sex-acts that would go on during the club even (basically, swap Gogo dancers (i.e stage / podium dancers) for "courting couples" lol).

I could be wrong, but I think the latter point would class the event as an orgy under UK laws, which would probably cause all sorts of problems for them (both from a legal and branding perspective).
There's a very brief summary following the link below... but to get a true taste of the event, I suggest you do your own research on it (caveat:- it's probably NSFW).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manumission_(event)

sounds like my kind of party