Are You Supposed To Feel Stuff When Kissing Someone?
At first, I thought it was a drunk thing. I’d kissed men and women, but it felt gross, and sloppy, and weird. I would find them physically attractive, but then they would kiss me, and I would get the ick. I decided it was because I’m not good at kissing, and that, with experience, I would enjoy kissing.
Now I have a boyfriend, and we have made out several times, majority of times sober, and I just want it to end. I sit through it because I hope he’s enjoying it. The first two times, it was okay, I didn’t get anything out of it, but it was tolerable. Now every time time my lips feel wet, I’m grossed out, the noises of our lips 😭😭😭 is so gross 😭😭, and the other day he tried to put his tongue in my mouth! I died! 🙈😫 No! Just no! 😭😭
I’m not asexual (unless I’ve been aegosexual this entire time and it never clicked), so maybe it’s a neurodivergent thing???
Everyone can’t be bad kissers, and my boyfriend once claimed I was a good kisser, so I can’t be that bad either (I hope). I don’t mind sitting through it for him, but I don’t feel anything at all, and I’m too embarrassed to tell anyone in rl.
Help? 😅
Now I have a boyfriend, and we have made out several times, majority of times sober, and I just want it to end. I sit through it because I hope he’s enjoying it. The first two times, it was okay, I didn’t get anything out of it, but it was tolerable. Now every time time my lips feel wet, I’m grossed out, the noises of our lips 😭😭😭 is so gross 😭😭, and the other day he tried to put his tongue in my mouth! I died! 🙈😫 No! Just no! 😭😭
I’m not asexual (unless I’ve been aegosexual this entire time and it never clicked), so maybe it’s a neurodivergent thing???
Everyone can’t be bad kissers, and my boyfriend once claimed I was a good kisser, so I can’t be that bad either (I hope). I don’t mind sitting through it for him, but I don’t feel anything at all, and I’m too embarrassed to tell anyone in rl.
Help? 😅
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