How to flirt?

lessthanthree

Mrah. It's not necessarily something that can be taught;

consider this:

your friend has told you that flicking your hair is good in conversation. Chances are you'll be concentrating so hard on flicking your hair that you'll be wondering "am i doing it properly?/at the right time?/is it working" ..to a point at which you'll probably not even be able to follow the conversation.

Guys like it when girls act naturally, and generally boyfriends will tell you that it's the natural quirks and things girls do that make them so attractive, rather than the learned, supposedly tried and tested techniques.

Like I said: spend too much time worrying about implementing body language that other people tell you to; or go with the flow and act naturally.

I know what is more attractive.

Totally agree!

Anyway, if you have to act and fake and flirt so deliberately - how can you be sure the guy doesn't just like you sexually? A guy should like you for who YOU are - and if you're not natural, they aren't gonna know if they really like you or not.

Reply 22

Mrs_F

I thought flirting just came naturally? To girls especially. We are always flirting, it can't be helped. (Well I didn't think so anyway). :confused:

Reply 23

Sam_B

how you doin'?

LOL

Reply 24

I like it when girls come near me... Smile... Just say "Hey..." while smiling in a semi-sexy kind of way and leave me to continue the conversation. Of course this mostly applies for girls I've never met before.

:dancing:

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Michael Mourao

I like it when girls come near me... Smile... Just say "Hey..." while smiling in a semi-sexy kind of way and leave me to continue the conversation. Of course this mostly applies for girls I've never met before.

:dancing:

Someone's been really mean and changed your signature so that it draws attention to the fact that you're wearing sunglasses indoors in your avatar. :frown:

Reply 26

Adhsur

englishstudent

Someone's been really mean and changed your signature so that it draws attention to the fact that you're wearing sunglasses indoors in your avatar. :frown:

LOL! I so wanted to give you rep for that. :biggrin:

I wonder, have we met? :wink:

Reply 27

englishstudent

Someone's been really mean and changed your signature so that it draws attention to the fact that you're wearing sunglasses indoors in your avatar. :frown:

OMG thank u so much for noticing. I changed it. Is it ok now? I hope it doesn't keep distracting u...

Reply 28

Adhsur

LOL! I so wanted to give you rep for that. :biggrin:

I wonder, have we met? :wink:

There's an outside chance! :love:

Reply 29

lessthanthree

apart from pirates, what sort of person thinks it's appropriate and/or normal to wear dark eyewear indoors?

your makeup consultant

Reply 30

danmint

just be cool interested and dont lose eye contact, try and act like a lady :wink:

and whatever you dont DONT try to act 'rude'.

Reply 31

lessthanthree

I don't wear make up, but it was a nice attempt.

Reply 32

Michael Mourao

OMG thank u so much for noticing. I changed it. Is it ok now? I hope it doesn't keep distracting u...

Yeah that's slightly better. Now you just think Einstein is sexy? :wink:

Reply 33

englishstudent

Yeah that's slightly better. Now you just think Einstein is sexy? :wink:

U apparently haven't read about the general theory of relativity. Sooooo sexy :cool:

Reply 34

Michael Mourao

U apparently haven't read about the general theory of relativity. Sooooo sexy :cool:

E=MC^2 floats my boat. :cool:

Reply 35

englishstudent

E=MC^2 floats my boat. :cool:

that's the "special" one. read books. :flute:

Reply 36

Adhsur

Michael Mourao

U apparently haven't read about the general theory of relativity. Sooooo sexy :cool:

Awwww, aren't you sweet.

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