Choosing chaos

Just know, male's sexual responses i.e. boners are instinctive and not necessarily because they genuinely love you.
Not sure what the question is, but personally, my pick is the first guy. But that's me 😊

Op 1 - My ex
jewish
british
doe-eyed
brown hair
rugby+wrestling+shot put body
super thoughtful (bought me flowers weekly)
liked me more than I liked him
body hair + a mini neck beard
said ily the other day
big d energy
will be extremely successful one day (I have no doubt)
extremely smart (in really hard classes AND semi ace-ing them)
a whole-er person(has a good sense of self and some self-assurance)
no contact for the past two years (no talking, no eye contact, different hallways)
Op 2 - One of his friends
Indian-American
Christian
brown (duh)
stronger than I am (I've done over a decade of karate)
he works out
considerate
humble
actually funny
dumber than me academically but has a bigger worldview than I ever will
knows a little too much about me (so like ruining the friendship would... ya know)
Op 3 - One of my friends ex.crushes
blonde
christian
blue eyed
cheats (not romantically, like in class)
kind of smart classes (might be failing them but who cares he's in AP physics 1 with me)
politically apt
charismatic
addicted to video games
had a boner when my and my other friend were making sexually suggestive comments and blushed at me
Op 4 - A church guy who's hella homophobic
Ethiopian-American
addicted to god
sister told me I'm too loud and he didn't correct me
like me. a lot. is simping.
homophobic
Op 5 - The friend mentioned in Op 3
an acquired taste. like some people hate her after meeting her once but idk after a while it's like you get used to her crazy and kind of become crazy your self
super free, liberated (?) doesn't cares what the haters have to say
has offered to f me (jokingly?) multiple times
has family issues
is a little controlling
thinks she's the only person in the world with bright ideas