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My biggest culture shocks starting uni - What surprised you the most?

Starting university is a huge change, and for many students, it comes with a fair share of surprises. Whether you’re coming straight from school, taking a break before uni, or moving from another country, there’s always something unexpected about student life.

For me, one of the biggest shocks was how independent everything is. Unlike school, no one is reminding you about deadlines or chasing you to attend classes, you must stay on top of everything yourself. This has taught me the importance of time management and personal responsibility, and I’ve become much better at organising my workload and setting priorities according to my deadlines

Something I didn’t expect was how hard it can be to make friends in the beginning. Everyone seems to know each other already, especially if they’re in halls or come from the same college. It felt like everyone had their little cliques, and I worried about fitting in. But after a while, I realised that most people felt the same way! It just takes time, and putting yourself out there, whether through group projects, societies, or even just chatting to someone in a lecture, helps.

Then there’s the classic student budgeting struggle! I underestimated how quickly money disappears between groceries, travel, and the occasional takeaway. Learning to manage finances was a learning curve.

What about you? What shocked you the most when you started university? Was it the workload, making friends, or something completely unexpected? Let’s hear your experiences!

~Annabel (Kingston Rep).

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by Kingston Annabel
Starting university is a huge change, and for many students, it comes with a fair share of surprises. Whether you’re coming straight from school, taking a break before uni, or moving from another country, there’s always something unexpected about student life.
For me, one of the biggest shocks was how independent everything is. Unlike school, no one is reminding you about deadlines or chasing you to attend classes, you must stay on top of everything yourself. This has taught me the importance of time management and personal responsibility, and I’ve become much better at organising my workload and setting priorities according to my deadlines
Something I didn’t expect was how hard it can be to make friends in the beginning. Everyone seems to know each other already, especially if they’re in halls or come from the same college. It felt like everyone had their little cliques, and I worried about fitting in. But after a while, I realised that most people felt the same way! It just takes time, and putting yourself out there, whether through group projects, societies, or even just chatting to someone in a lecture, helps.
Then there’s the classic student budgeting struggle! I underestimated how quickly money disappears between groceries, travel, and the occasional takeaway. Learning to manage finances was a learning curve.
What about you? What shocked you the most when you started university? Was it the workload, making friends, or something completely unexpected? Let’s hear your experiences!
~Annabel (Kingston Rep).

Love this post Annabel! Definitely relate to that budgeting struggle - I was not prepared for how quickly things add up. Like one coffee here, one bus ride there, and suddenly my balance is crying. Also completely agree with what you said about independence, It's a big shift from school but such a good way to build confidence in managing your own time and priorities, and I eventually found my footing and systems that work for me (apple calendar has become my best friend).

Innaya,
MMU Student Rep x

Reply 2

Original post
by Kingston Annabel
Starting university is a huge change, and for many students, it comes with a fair share of surprises. Whether you’re coming straight from school, taking a break before uni, or moving from another country, there’s always something unexpected about student life.
For me, one of the biggest shocks was how independent everything is. Unlike school, no one is reminding you about deadlines or chasing you to attend classes, you must stay on top of everything yourself. This has taught me the importance of time management and personal responsibility, and I’ve become much better at organising my workload and setting priorities according to my deadlines
Something I didn’t expect was how hard it can be to make friends in the beginning. Everyone seems to know each other already, especially if they’re in halls or come from the same college. It felt like everyone had their little cliques, and I worried about fitting in. But after a while, I realised that most people felt the same way! It just takes time, and putting yourself out there, whether through group projects, societies, or even just chatting to someone in a lecture, helps.
Then there’s the classic student budgeting struggle! I underestimated how quickly money disappears between groceries, travel, and the occasional takeaway. Learning to manage finances was a learning curve.
What about you? What shocked you the most when you started university? Was it the workload, making friends, or something completely unexpected? Let’s hear your experiences!
~Annabel (Kingston Rep).

For me, starting university was a shock at how independent everything felt; suddenly, no one was reminding me about deadlines, and I had to manage my timetable. The workload was bigger than I expected, too, but meeting people in tutorials and societies was a highlight I didn’t see coming! Starting at CCCU was a real eye-opener! The workload and independence were bigger than I expected, but joining societies, meeting people in lectures, and getting involved on campus made it an amazing experience.

Reply 3

Original post
by Kingston Annabel
Starting university is a huge change, and for many students, it comes with a fair share of surprises. Whether you’re coming straight from school, taking a break before uni, or moving from another country, there’s always something unexpected about student life.
For me, one of the biggest shocks was how independent everything is. Unlike school, no one is reminding you about deadlines or chasing you to attend classes, you must stay on top of everything yourself. This has taught me the importance of time management and personal responsibility, and I’ve become much better at organising my workload and setting priorities according to my deadlines
Something I didn’t expect was how hard it can be to make friends in the beginning. Everyone seems to know each other already, especially if they’re in halls or come from the same college. It felt like everyone had their little cliques, and I worried about fitting in. But after a while, I realised that most people felt the same way! It just takes time, and putting yourself out there, whether through group projects, societies, or even just chatting to someone in a lecture, helps.
Then there’s the classic student budgeting struggle! I underestimated how quickly money disappears between groceries, travel, and the occasional takeaway. Learning to manage finances was a learning curve.
What about you? What shocked you the most when you started university? Was it the workload, making friends, or something completely unexpected? Let’s hear your experiences!
~Annabel (Kingston Rep).

Great post @Kingston Annabel ❤️

I was shocked about the independance and budgeting problem as well! When I started at Essex, I had to pay my own rent, go out and about shopping and cleaning and it was different since its your own place and you are on your own!

What I realised was that my flatmates were very lovely and helpful and were willing to help out with small things and how we have a good bond despite not talking all the time. Budgeting problem is very true as its tempting to buy loads of food or a cheeky takeout way too often when you are on your own especially 😀

Essex is a welcoming space so the independence i have grown used to and i am sure all students will feel the same way 😊

Essex Student Rep - Lavanya 💜

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