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i want to have sex with my friend (he wants to be friends with benefits) but he only does the make out sections but i get really horney somtimes and i dont want to do it with a random person, and i told him that i feel safer doing it wit him and he hasnt givin me an answer yet and i think he might find it weird

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respectfully, i think you ahould wait for his answer

Reply 2

Original post by Hotkitty2009
i want to have sex with my friend (he wants to be friends with benefits) but he only does the make out sections but i get really horney somtimes and i dont want to do it with a random person, and i told him that i feel safer doing it wit him and he hasnt givin me an answer yet and i think he might find it weird
Just wait, dont pressure him. He might not be giving you an answer because maybe he's either not ready or doesnt want to do it. Either way, you gotta wait for a sign.

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Original post by Anonymous
Just wait, dont pressure him. He might not be giving you an answer because maybe he's either not ready or doesnt want to do it. Either way, you gotta wait for a sign.

were not friends anymore because he sent my nudes around

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Original post by Hotkitty2009
i want to have sex with my friend (he wants to be friends with benefits) but he only does the make out sections but i get really horney somtimes and i dont want to do it with a random person, and i told him that i feel safer doing it wit him and he hasnt givin me an answer yet and i think he might find it weird

if he only wants to be freinds with benefits it's clear he has no feelings towards you... he doesnt want a deeper relationship with you. i reccomend you control yourself and wait. Sex is a very intament act so wait untill you're in a healthy realtionship and it will come natrually.

I am 20 and i am a virgin but i have heard of a lot of situation like yours so keep yourself safe. build some self love and self respect don't send people your nudes. A guy that actually loves and respects you would never ask for nudes so dont feel pressured into sending people things like that.

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Original post by Anonymous
if he only wants to be freinds with benefits it's clear he has no feelings towards you... he doesnt want a deeper relationship with you. i reccomend you control yourself and wait. Sex is a very intament act so wait untill you're in a healthy realtionship and it will come natrually.
I am 20 and i am a virgin but i have heard of a lot of situation like yours so keep yourself safe. build some self love and self respect don't send people your nudes. A guy that actually loves and respects you would never ask for nudes so dont feel pressured into sending people things like that.

ok thanks for ur feedback i appreciate it but im now in a great relation ship with my GIRLFRIEND and im so happy that i found her she is really sweet and i could never have ask for anything better but the friend i was talking about we no longer speek because i found ou he was gay and was telling everyone that i was obbsesed with him when he started dateing his current boyfriend like dude wha? but its fine

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