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Does it count?

So I was with a guy last night and we tried to get intimate but he only managed to get the tip in. I’ve never done anything like this before and was wondering if this counts as losing my virginity?

Reply 1

it doesnt, as long as he didnt penetrate

Reply 2

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by hfftttdtt56757
it doesnt, as long as he didnt penetrate

I mean he did but like I said only the tip was able to go in, not more

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
I mean he did but like I said only the tip was able to go in, not more

tbh the term,"virginity" is a social construct. There is no clear cut definition of a person losing their virginity. It's only what an individual makes it out to be. For example, some people think that just touching another person sexually counts as losing your virginity lol. You will get very different answers to this question from different people. and btw... what do you mean he could only manage to get the tip in, as in it was too big?

Reply 4

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by hfftttdtt56757
tbh the term,"virginity" is a social construct. There is no clear cut definition of a person losing their virginity. It's only what an individual makes it out to be. For example, some people think that just touching another person sexually counts as losing your virginity lol. You will get very different answers to this question from different people. and btw... what do you mean he could only manage to get the tip in, as in it was too big?

I get that, what I mean to say is I think he was just too big. I definitely felt however much he managed to get in before we gave up, I know it didn’t penetrate the whole way but at least some of it did and I just am wondering if I should consider that as I’ve lost my virginity

Reply 5

If you ask me, it doesnt count.

Reply 6

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by Anonymous
So I was with a guy last night and we tried to get intimate but he only managed to get the tip in. I’ve never done anything like this before and was wondering if this counts as losing my virginity?

Virginity is a social construct, so you can decide whether it counts or not!

Reply 7

You have to do the full business for it to count

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