This is a my last post
Hi guys 28M
I am just tired of everything obviously there is a lot more people suffering from this. which I feel I for as I need to be really careful on how post stuff as poeple will know you have already posted this before.
I get it but I think i am bi I know i will disappoint my family as I watch a lot of gay porn and trans so I have officially lost my attraction towards girls again so I assume I am bi so yeah if I posted again who's gives a **** I will ever get a girlfriend attraction towards girls.
I'm a bi
I am just tired of everything obviously there is a lot more people suffering from this. which I feel I for as I need to be really careful on how post stuff as poeple will know you have already posted this before.
I get it but I think i am bi I know i will disappoint my family as I watch a lot of gay porn and trans so I have officially lost my attraction towards girls again so I assume I am bi so yeah if I posted again who's gives a **** I will ever get a girlfriend attraction towards girls.
I'm a bi
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Reply 1
Weren’t you saying the opposite a few days ago?
Edit: It was seven days ago. By my maths you’ve gone from bi, to straight, and now back to bi over the course of 2 weeks.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7580781#post100465927
Edit: It was seven days ago. By my maths you’ve gone from bi, to straight, and now back to bi over the course of 2 weeks.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7580781#post100465927
Reply 2
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by Admit-OneWeren’t you saying the opposite a few days ago?
Edit: It was seven days ago. By my maths you’ve gone from bi, to straight, and now back to bi over the course of 2 weeks.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7580781#post100465927
Edit: It was seven days ago. By my maths you’ve gone from bi, to straight, and now back to bi over the course of 2 weeks.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7580781#post100465927
I'm gay
Reply 3
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by AnonymousI'm gay
Being gay is not a crime and your sexual orientation is none if your family's business...
Reply 4
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by AnonymousI'm gay
You wrote that you were bi 8 hours ago. Are you using those terms interchangeably?
(edited 1 year ago)
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by AnonymousI'm gay
Yes. Yes you are.
Reply 6
Your issue isn't your sexual orientation (i.e. whether you're bi, gay, straight or w/e), it's that you are having problematic intrusive thoughts about it. The intrusive thoughts are the issue here.
The best way to deal with those is to get psychiatric help. I'm not a psychiatrist but what you're demonstrating seems very similar to OCD symptoms. There are very likely to be talking therapies and medications that could help you. The best way to start would be to speak with your GP about it.
The best way to deal with those is to get psychiatric help. I'm not a psychiatrist but what you're demonstrating seems very similar to OCD symptoms. There are very likely to be talking therapies and medications that could help you. The best way to start would be to speak with your GP about it.
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thought this would be a sui note.
Reply 8
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by anosmianAcrimonyYour issue isn't your sexual orientation (i.e. whether you're bi, gay, straight or w/e), it's that you are having problematic intrusive thoughts about it. The intrusive thoughts are the issue here.
The best way to deal with those is to get psychiatric help. I'm not a psychiatrist but what you're demonstrating seems very similar to OCD symptoms. There are very likely to be talking therapies and medications that could help you. The best way to start would be to speak with your GP about it.
The best way to deal with those is to get psychiatric help. I'm not a psychiatrist but what you're demonstrating seems very similar to OCD symptoms. There are very likely to be talking therapies and medications that could help you. The best way to start would be to speak with your GP about it.
But if I am already thinking does that mean Im gay/ bi but I like girls? I know being gay or you can be who you want to be as I do want to have a girlfriend.
But having these thoughts surely means I can be bisexual. I haven't watched porn for over two weeks nor have mastruabated Sorry if I am been to informtive but want to quit it for good.
And trying to find being attractive towards girls again. I have talked to family members about my porn habits and I know its a bit weird talking to my family members about what I watch.
I dunno if its brain fog from watching too much of it or what I dunno but when I am trying to rewire my brain back to liking girls again I know this sounds weird. And repetitive all the time but it's just ****ing me off.
Reply 9
Hmm!
Clarity is only possible if you are living well and right. Being a gay itself is enough to land you in a state of confusion.
I pray the Lord give you understanding!
Clarity is only possible if you are living well and right. Being a gay itself is enough to land you in a state of confusion.
I pray the Lord give you understanding!
Reply 10
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by Abiola1996Hmm!
Clarity is only possible if you are living well and right. Being a gay itself is enough to land you in a state of confusion.
I pray the Lord give you understanding!
Clarity is only possible if you are living well and right. Being a gay itself is enough to land you in a state of confusion.
I pray the Lord give you understanding!
Why is being gay confusing?
Reply 11
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by Admit-OneWhy is being gay confusing?
If you are one, you will know understand.
Reply 12
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by Abiola1996If you are one, you will know understand.
Not an especially clear comment.
Hopefully as per your advice, the Lord will give them some clarity on how to live their life as a gay person.
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by Admit-OneNot an especially clear comment.
Hopefully as per your advice, the Lord will give them some clarity on how to live their life as a gay person.
Hopefully as per your advice, the Lord will give them some clarity on how to live their life as a gay person.
Not understanding to live as one but to know they are not designed in the first place to live so.
Reply 14
I came out as gay when I was 34. I was married to my husband for almost 4 years, and together 8 years before we married. I always knew deep down, but didn't want to upset the family.
Came out and my husband was biggest support. Family disowned me. Didn't speak to my sister for 2 years. But in end we just started talking and now closer than ever. Weird. Mum and dad have never particularly cared for me tbh so on and off with them.
Be yourself, don't live to everyone's expectations.
Came out and my husband was biggest support. Family disowned me. Didn't speak to my sister for 2 years. But in end we just started talking and now closer than ever. Weird. Mum and dad have never particularly cared for me tbh so on and off with them.
Be yourself, don't live to everyone's expectations.
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by Abiola1996If you are one, you will know understand.
gay man here, literally never been confused about it. it's not a 'choice' so god, if he exists, literally creates gay people.
My daughter is a lesbian. I don't think she's confused about it at all. Why would it be any more confusing to be gay than to be straight?
Reply 17
Appreciate all the advice and hopefully offended anyone I feel like in this generation you have to be careful about what you say. And that's just bull **** we are all human here we can be who we want to be and I am happy being straight as that's who I am.
I think with this repetitive cycle it's best to move forward with my life and hopefully be successful and have a relationship with a women but in all honesty that's why I given up on girls as I am generally scared of having a girlfriend.
So I guess I am just happy being single I guess the right girl will come along whenever the **** that happens 🤣 it really doesn't so I fully given up. Focusing on being better by having a different job and trying to achieve goals.
So. I am truly apologise if I say the same **** but I am just trying to discover myself.
I think with this repetitive cycle it's best to move forward with my life and hopefully be successful and have a relationship with a women but in all honesty that's why I given up on girls as I am generally scared of having a girlfriend.
So I guess I am just happy being single I guess the right girl will come along whenever the **** that happens 🤣 it really doesn't so I fully given up. Focusing on being better by having a different job and trying to achieve goals.
So. I am truly apologise if I say the same **** but I am just trying to discover myself.
Reply 18
What the heck.
Reply 19
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by AnonymousAppreciate all the advice and hopefully offended anyone I feel like in this generation you have to be careful about what you say. And that's just bull **** we are all human here we can be who we want to be and I am happy being straight as that's who I am.
I think with this repetitive cycle it's best to move forward with my life and hopefully be successful and have a relationship with a women but in all honesty that's why I given up on girls as I am generally scared of having a girlfriend.
So I guess I am just happy being single I guess the right girl will come along whenever the **** that happens 🤣 it really doesn't so I fully given up. Focusing on being better by having a different job and trying to achieve goals.
So. I am truly apologise if I say the same **** but I am just trying to discover myself.
I think with this repetitive cycle it's best to move forward with my life and hopefully be successful and have a relationship with a women but in all honesty that's why I given up on girls as I am generally scared of having a girlfriend.
So I guess I am just happy being single I guess the right girl will come along whenever the **** that happens 🤣 it really doesn't so I fully given up. Focusing on being better by having a different job and trying to achieve goals.
So. I am truly apologise if I say the same **** but I am just trying to discover myself.
I'm so confused by this post.
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