Would you want to marry the person you're currently dating?

Could you see yourself tying the knot with your current significant other?
Fine if the answer is no, some things aren't as serious especially if it's early days in your relationship.
Equally, it could be that you both don't want to follow the tradition/concept of marriage
What do you think?
Can you imagine getting married to your significant other?
Or are things not quite there yet?
I'm interested to hear what people say

Could you see yourself tying the knot with your current significant other?
Fine if the answer is no, some things aren't as serious especially if it's early days in your relationship.
Equally, it could be that you both don't want to follow the tradition/concept of marriage
What do you think?
Can you imagine getting married to your significant other?
Or are things not quite there yet?
I'm interested to hear what people say

YES but only without a prenup. been waiting for years for him to propose tbh, but i don't think it's ever going to happen at this point...

While I agree with prenups for men, I’m curious as to why you’d want it given what you’ve told us previously (unless you’ve not mentioned a large inheritance).

which part? i say a lot of things on tsr so not sure which one of my posts you're referring to.

i'm not saying it would make me a multimillionaire or anything, but his family's pretty loaded. he's doing well too, enough for us to live a really comfortable life. so yeah, to have some sense of future financial security would be nice...

You realise you would get that without a prenup, it just means you couldn't then immediately divorce and claim for 50% of his assets plus alimony...

but that's what i said? without a prenup, in my first post?
but either way, i'm sure he/his family would find a way to screw me over anyway

Sorry mistyped, I meant even with a prenup (corrected original post now).
You still get the financial benefits while you're married.

which part? i say a lot of things on tsr so not sure which one of my posts you're referring to.
i'm not saying it would make me a multimillionaire or anything, but his family's pretty loaded. he's doing well too, enough for us to live a really comfortable life. so yeah, to have some sense of future financial security would be nice...

Ah, I misread and thought you wanted a pre nup. As you might expect, I wouldn’t marry without her signing a pre nup

i'm surprised tbh. i thought you were the more 'traditional' type when it comes to marriage, etc.

I am however the current legal state for a man who own a property (should be buying in the next 18 months) is that a woman can be financially rewarded for leaving a man (or even cheating on him thanks to no fault).
Thus any man who enters a marriage and is essentially a hundred grand richer than the other is being monumentally stupid if there’s no pre-nup given a 43% divorce rate.
If the hypothetical woman was richer than me in assets that would negate the need bar the infedelity clause. In an ideal world we’d also make adultery a civil offense so that the person cheated on could sue for breach of (marriage) contract.

well, you may say that now, but if a woman like madison beer, or i don't know, prime brooke shields, megan fox, or adriana lima (looks-wise, not money-wise ofc) wanted to marry you, you'd probably forget about that prenup really fast.

Assuming they were poor, no. Obviously a celeb is rich enough that divorce would favour me were it to happen.

well, you may say that now, but if a woman like madison beer, or i don't know, prime brooke shields, megan fox, or adriana lima (looks-wise, not money-wise ofc) wanted to marry you, you'd probably forget about that prenup really fast.

That would be the exact sort of situation I would want the prenup for, I'd be pretty suspicious 😅 Kind of as Rakas said above, when you actually have property worth taking you start viewing this a little different, esp with someone who has recently appeared in your life.

ah, i see.
i'd only get scraps though since all the pre marriage assets would be protected. but yeah either way, i don't think it's ever going to happen so not gonna get my hopes up, lol.

yeah, maybe. i wouldn’t know i’ve got nothing to my name, tbh. but that’s probably how my boyfriend thinks too hence why he'll never propose lol : <