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Is It Normal To Not Feel Anything?

Anonymous for obvious reasons.

I had sex for the first time a few days ago. I didn't feel anything both physically and emotionally, like it didn't happen at all. It wasn't enjoyable and I don't know how it could be. The whole experience has made me feel less attracted to women; I don't know why.

Is all this normal? Or something that gets better over time?

Reply 1

Abiola1996

Original post

by Anonymous

Anonymous for obvious reasons.
I had sex for the first time a few days ago. I didn't feel anything both physically and emotionally, like it didn't happen at all. It wasn't enjoyable and I don't know how it could be. The whole experience has made me feel less attracted to women; I don't know why.
Is all this normal? Or something that gets better over time?

The first question to actually ask yourself is if there was a feeling even before the sexual activity.

And depending on your answer to that, please, ensure to see an urologist in your area.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

for reference im a girl but iv found that sex feels 10/10 when the other person is experienced and 4/10 when they are not. and how attracted were u to this woman in the first place? is she ur gf?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

I wasn't that into her but I was into what we were doing if that makes sense. I'm not experienced at all, but she was.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

my advice is try w another person that u find hot

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

I don't really have much choice on being with someone hotter, but I'll keep it in mind I guess.

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

Original post

by Anonymous

Anonymous for obvious reasons.
I had sex for the first time a few days ago. I didn't feel anything both physically and emotionally, like it didn't happen at all. It wasn't enjoyable and I don't know how it could be. The whole experience has made me feel less attracted to women; I don't know why.
Is all this normal? Or something that gets better over time?