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Did I ghost her by accident?

So this girl I like and likes me messaged me first a couple of times. I don’t like texting much, she sent me a reel on Instagram I liked it and commented about it she said smth I just reacted to her text…

Is that ghosting bc I didn’t mean to but my friend said it was…like I replied I just didn’t have anything else to say to her text

That was a week ago, I don’t like doing stuff over the phone I’ll be back in college in a couple of weeks so I’d rather speak in person

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by Anonymous
So this girl I like and likes me messaged me first a couple of times. I don’t like texting much, she sent me a reel on Instagram I liked it and commented about it she said smth I just reacted to her text…
Is that ghosting bc I didn’t mean to but my friend said it was…like I replied I just didn’t have anything else to say to her text
That was a week ago, I don’t like doing stuff over the phone I’ll be back in college in a couple of weeks so I’d rather speak in person

communication is key. you should tell her that you prefer face to face interaction and don't like texting much so she doesn't get the wrong idea.

Reply 2

Original post
by Anonymous
So this girl I like and likes me messaged me first a couple of times. I don’t like texting much, she sent me a reel on Instagram I liked it and commented about it she said smth I just reacted to her text…
Is that ghosting bc I didn’t mean to but my friend said it was…like I replied I just didn’t have anything else to say to her text
That was a week ago, I don’t like doing stuff over the phone I’ll be back in college in a couple of weeks so I’d rather speak in person


Man I would be crying thinking you ain’t like me definitely consolidate her
I don't think most people would assume that reacting to a message was ghosting.

Maybe just send a reply about seeing them at college.

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