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What do women think of a guy who rejects weed?

I'm older now, its purely out of retrospective interest, but what do women on here think of guys who smoke weed versus those who reject it? I never really wanted to go through the cringe of learning to roll joints, buying weed(let alone how to assure it's purity) and trying to be cool smoking weed. I may be wrong, It seemed quite a(state school anyhow) middle class thing to indulge in to me, for people who would later make a lot of their lives, not some thing that people with *****ier prospects were as interested in. Anyhow since I'm a lone wolf not a group person I never wanted to conform to it. I'm just curious to know retrospectively what women think because the guys that did weed tended to be more successful with women at that age.

Reply 1

No opinion either way, never smoked weed, if I had people around me who were really into it I'd try it but it's not a big deal, if he didn't drink on the other hand...

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by EuropeanIAm
I'm older now, its purely out of retrospective interest, but what do women on here think of guys who smoke weed versus those who reject it? I never really wanted to go through the cringe of learning to roll joints, buying weed(let alone how to assure it's purity) and trying to be cool smoking weed. I may be wrong, It seemed quite a(state school anyhow) middle class thing to indulge in to me, for people who would later make a lot of their lives, not some thing that people with *****ier prospects were as interested in. Anyhow since I'm a lone wolf not a group person I never wanted to conform to it. I'm just curious to know retrospectively what women think because the guys that did weed tended to be more successful with women at that age.

can't stand the smell of it so it's a plus in my book. any other 'light' drug/alcohol i'm fine with tho.

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by Username123ab
No opinion either way, never smoked weed, if I had people around me who were really into it I'd try it but it's not a big deal, if he didn't drink on the other hand...

Oh many people I knew at school started at like 13 smoking weed.

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by EuropeanIAm
Oh many people I knew at school started at like 13 smoking weed.

Me too, I've just never had friends so was never involved in it

Reply 5

Any sort of drug or addictive substance is highly unwanted. I certainly wouldn’t date anyone who did weed because why would you purposefully damage your health?
Never smoked it.
Drugs, smoking, and vaping are all very off-putting to me.

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by EuropeanIAm
I'm older now, its purely out of retrospective interest, but what do women on here think of guys who smoke weed versus those who reject it? I never really wanted to go through the cringe of learning to roll joints, buying weed(let alone how to assure it's purity) and trying to be cool smoking weed. I may be wrong, It seemed quite a(state school anyhow) middle class thing to indulge in to me, for people who would later make a lot of their lives, not some thing that people with *****ier prospects were as interested in. Anyhow since I'm a lone wolf not a group person I never wanted to conform to it. I'm just curious to know retrospectively what women think because the guys that did weed tended to be more successful with women at that age.

I'm a dude, but Ik this bc of my friends....some say they like it, bc they can control the guys with it. others say they don't like it bc of the addiction and bc they aren't responsible, but the funny thing is alot of them smoke, vape, drink...I do the same to get rid of pain, trauma, and just **** going around in my life nowadays. Just old bad memories trying to forget. and the way the "High" feeling is...

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by EuropeanIAm
Oh many people I knew at school started at like 13 smoking weed.

One of my sisters bribed me with weed when I was 12 or 13 so I wouldn't tell if she snuck out at my grandparents...It was my first time trying it, but it was a card instead of the other way

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by RedFeatherx
Any sort of drug or addictive substance is highly unwanted. I certainly wouldn’t date anyone who did weed because why would you purposefully damage your health?

you only have one life, might as well live it up to the fullest
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by 666LiLREAPER666
you only have one life, might as well live it up to the fullest


It's really interesting that you equate living life to the fullest, with taking drugs.

I would equate it with travelling the world, learning lots of things, and spending time with loved ones having experiences (not drug related experiences) and making memories.
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