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My ex best friend manipulated one of my close friends into believing her side of a fight she started over a 3D printed spider that I gave to my friend and my ex best friend wanted it so badly she tried to jump her and when I took my friends side she got mad and manipulated all my online friends into hating me while I was grounded I wanna cry because no one will believe me and now I really don’t know what to do I’m 14 and both of my friends that were fighting are 15 were all freshmen so I don’t know why my ex best friend would pull elementary bs I just want my friends back.

Reply 1

I'm a little lost as to what made them all turn against you so quickly but it sounds like they're just bad friends, especially if they're willing to drop you so easily?

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by Ilikehellokitty
My ex best friend manipulated one of my close friends into believing her side of a fight she started over a 3D printed spider that I gave to my friend and my ex best friend wanted it so badly she tried to jump her and when I took my friends side she got mad and manipulated all my online friends into hating me while I was grounded I wanna cry because no one will believe me and now I really don’t know what to do I’m 14 and both of my friends that were fighting are 15 were all freshmen so I don’t know why my ex best friend would pull elementary bs I just want my friends back.

Uhhhhh....well if you ask me (don't yell at me) I'd say get better online friends, I got a couple chatrooms I'm apart of, and I'd be happy to let you know the place its at and the name of the chatroom. If you want you want I could be your friend. bc I'm actually in need of friends I'm a Jr in high school. Also try to find more support people or animals, animals are good for getting rid of stress, bc its like they understand...

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by Anonymous
I'm a little lost as to what made them all turn against you so quickly but it sounds like they're just bad friends, especially if they're willing to drop you so easily?

I got grounded for 3 weeks when the fight happened and that was enough time for my ex best friend to convince evreyone I was In the wrong I still don’t know how though considering I wasent even in the fight.

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by Ilikehellokitty
I got grounded for 3 weeks when the fight happened and that was enough time for my ex best friend to convince evreyone I was In the wrong I still don’t know how though considering I wasent even in the fight.


So yeah it sounds like they're just a bad person to be around and that you need to find some new people to talk to I think the person above recommended some good stuff to check out

Reply 5

Human will always be human. Just ensure you are doing the right thing and you not really the one at fault. If you are not be sure if they are reasonable people, they are coming back.

Reply 6

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by Abiola1996
Human will always be human. Just ensure you are doing the right thing and you not really the one at fault. If you are not be sure if they are reasonable people, they are coming back.

Trust me they aren’t one of my friends were in a group chat because she got added accidentally and they we’re criticizing what I did my appearance and saying I hurt myself for attention it’s sad tbh they have nothing else better to do in they’re life than talk about me it’s kinda like they’re obsessed……

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