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Boyfriend issues

I am studying a course at work and after I finish I qualify in my profession. I feel scared to finish my course. I am in a relationship with someone and he has told me we will move in together after I finish my course. I keep thinking its all made up. We are engaged and I have not told my mum. I feel I am in a dream, if I complete my course and we don't move in together my world will come crashing down. Please help.

Reply 1

Don't overthink it because i feel it will affect the way you behave around him. Enjoy your relationship to the fullest. If it does end(which i don't hope that for you), then pick yourself up and move on. Tell your mom about your engagement tho to get her blessings.
Why are you scared to finish your course tho?

Reply 2

I will have to be more responsible in life. I need to learn how to drive, I have lessons and have been told to sit my test but I find driving difficult. I need to go on a diet and lose weight. My friends told me it's not that bad and I will be in a bikini this summer. I guess I just overthink everything. Apart from that I think I am ok.

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
I will have to be more responsible in life. I need to learn how to drive, I have lessons and have been told to sit my test but I find driving difficult. I need to go on a diet and lose weight. My friends told me it's not that bad and I will be in a bikini this summer. I guess I just overthink everything. Apart from that I think I am ok.

Don't overthink it. You'll be fine

Reply 4

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by Anonymous
I will have to be more responsible in life. I need to learn how to drive, I have lessons and have been told to sit my test but I find driving difficult. I need to go on a diet and lose weight. My friends told me it's not that bad and I will be in a bikini this summer. I guess I just overthink everything. Apart from that I think I am ok.

hey bro I understand your feelings, I need to get behind the wheel as well but I'm afraid of my dark and intrusive thoughts, and my common sense. I also need to go on a diet, bc I found out 2 days ago that I'm diabetic, and it made me really depressed, but when I went to prom the next day, my friends and a girl I met helped cheer me up. what I'm saying is that if it gets hard to the point of disbelief, try to talk to family and/or your boyfriend. Loved ones can help bring us u even in our lowest of lows...I've been depressed for the past few years and people on the chatrooms I'm on has helped me as well as the members of mine on Patreon. So My last piece of advise, is to continue looking forward on your journey in life I'm guessing that you're young, I understand that as well, bc I'm 17 bro, just trying to survive in life....good luck my friend.....until next time

Reply 5

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by Anonymous
Don't overthink it. You'll be fine



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by 666LiLREAPER666
hey bro I understand your feelings, I need to get behind the wheel as well but I'm afraid of my dark and intrusive thoughts, and my common sense. I also need to go on a diet, bc I found out 2 days ago that I'm diabetic, and it made me really depressed, but when I went to prom the next day, my friends and a girl I met helped cheer me up. what I'm saying is that if it gets hard to the point of disbelief, try to talk to family and/or your boyfriend. Loved ones can help bring us u even in our lowest of lows...I've been depressed for the past few years and people on the chatrooms I'm on has helped me as well as the members of mine on Patreon. So My last piece of advise, is to continue looking forward on your journey in life I'm guessing that you're young, I understand that as well, bc I'm 17 bro, just trying to survive in life....good luck my friend.....until next time
Thank you both for your kind words. I am now taking a different approach to life and I will try to be happier.

Reply 6

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by Anonymous
Thank you both for your kind words. I am now taking a different approach to life and I will try to be happier.

Happy to hear that💓

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