My gf finds sex painful and doesn’t get “wet”

So whenever I finger my GF she says it doesn’t feel nice and just feels uncomfortable/painful.
And whenever I have sex with her she says it just feels painful. She says she’s never enjoyed it and there’s never been a nice sensation for her. So she doesn’t know what an orgasm or anything feels like.
Am I doing something wrong? Or should I recommend she see a doctor? Does anyone know why this could be?

So whenever I finger my GF she says it doesn’t feel nice and just feels uncomfortable/painful.
And whenever I have sex with her she says it just feels painful. She says she’s never enjoyed it and there’s never been a nice sensation for her. So she doesn’t know what an orgasm or anything feels like.
Am I doing something wrong? Or should I recommend she see a doctor? Does anyone know why this could be?

dont worry ur not doing anything wrong. it's definitely her. either she needs some lube, she is not into it, or she is maybe insecure which makes her stressed which makes her not relaxed or maybe she is gay but obviously i can't assume which one it is. also sometimes i need to pee during sex too it's normal (im a girl). it's bc during sex u can press on her bladder by accident

So if a guy that's never had any driving lessons gets into a car and keeps stalling it, is that the fault of the car, or the driver or the lack of lessons?
If the car has a low torque engine and a manual box.
No lube is necessary for a man to give a woman an orgasm. Going into the mechanics of all the ways to do this would involve giving sex tips.
The girlfriend's lack of an orgasm is completely down to the original poster. And his lack of knowledge / experience / training. Possibly combined with his attitude.
The discomfort / pain. It's impossible to say what, if anything will resolve that, without getting into explicit detail.
There's plenty of things he could try that might resolve or mitigate this. All of them coming down to him being a better lover.

i am a girl BTW so it's not like im tryna bash the gf at all....OP said she hasnt had an orgasm ever this means solo as well which means SHE hasnt even figured it out herself so how can it be expected for him to magically be able to give that to her. also your car analogy makes no sense because youre basically saying all of sex is down to the man the "driver" while the car just takes a passive role. personally iv never felt any pain during sex unless im tense (which goes away quickly) and definitely not while being fingered. that is abnormal on the gfs part especially if OP is her BF which means she should feel comfortable and not tense.

There are techniques to give a woman an orgasm when she's never ever had one before.
Those techniques are about as challenging to get competent at as it is to learn to drive a low torque manual car (maybe one with no synchromesh for the more challenging women).
It would be taking the car analogy too far to paint the woman as purely passive.
The aim is to co-operate the woman into an orgasm. To co-operate with her physical body, her biology and her mind and her emotions.
Some women are the equivalent of a 2025 V8 turbodiesel automatic when comes to how easy "driving" them is.
Some are the equivalent of a 1955 1.0 petrol manual.

Don’t take sex too seriously add lots fireplace. At massage sharing what excites each other and invest in a good quality lube 🙂
Oh and need pee during/ after sex is normal and good for maintaining healthy balance as girls urethra much shorter than us guys.
Remember 🐢 slow n steady wins race ,.