Am I in the wrong to feel this way? I feel really bad
Hi so I thought I would come on here and explain the situation as I’m not feeling exactly good about it
Last night I went on my first works night out. I was enjoying myself and was feeling pretty happy within myself as I was super stressed the day before also. I had some drinks as you do, and I was just chatting with my co workers. I sat outside with a few of them on a couple of occasions to take a break also.
As we approach the second bar, the bouncer told me I was “too d…..” you know the word. I don’t want to say it on this Incase it gets taken down. I was quite taken aback by this, now I understand if I had been shouting/ slurring my words or falling about the place or otherwise causing mayhem then yes. All he saw was me chatting to my co workers. After this, a couple of them take me somewhere else to get a soft drink and one of them even told me I wasn’t anymore “d….” Than them and that he said that to me as I was the youngest (I also look young for my age but I am 20 and have id). Now I’m not saying that was the case but I’m saying I wasn’t visibly worse off than any of the others.
So at the end of the day I get driven home early and I spent all night feeling terrible about the situation and as though I’ve done something wrong. I’m having thoughts of “what if they all hate me now”. I’m just quite annoyed about the situation overall. Am I in the wrong?
Last night I went on my first works night out. I was enjoying myself and was feeling pretty happy within myself as I was super stressed the day before also. I had some drinks as you do, and I was just chatting with my co workers. I sat outside with a few of them on a couple of occasions to take a break also.
As we approach the second bar, the bouncer told me I was “too d…..” you know the word. I don’t want to say it on this Incase it gets taken down. I was quite taken aback by this, now I understand if I had been shouting/ slurring my words or falling about the place or otherwise causing mayhem then yes. All he saw was me chatting to my co workers. After this, a couple of them take me somewhere else to get a soft drink and one of them even told me I wasn’t anymore “d….” Than them and that he said that to me as I was the youngest (I also look young for my age but I am 20 and have id). Now I’m not saying that was the case but I’m saying I wasn’t visibly worse off than any of the others.
So at the end of the day I get driven home early and I spent all night feeling terrible about the situation and as though I’ve done something wrong. I’m having thoughts of “what if they all hate me now”. I’m just quite annoyed about the situation overall. Am I in the wrong?
Reply 1
Doesnt sound like you did anything wrong. If no one has mentioned it to you today that just forget it. Everyone does dumb stuff when drunk anyway and as you didnt then no one will care or remember by next week. Just go again next time.
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