Looking for advice <3
I've j/ been dropped by a friend of approx two years. no explanation, no warning - she's just stopped answering my texts. fall out has been incoming for some time when I was seeing a guy in our friendgroup (not officially bf///gf but you get the jiist) and they both got drunk and made out at a party (lol) and long story short; he chose her and they're now bf//gf. said i was ok to preserve the friendship even though it was hard only to be treated with that sort of response.
any advice for moving forward past this or potentially solving that conflict (can it be fixed?)
any advice for moving forward past this or potentially solving that conflict (can it be fixed?)
Reply 1
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She doesn’t sound like a great friend and seems to want to focus on her relationship rather than your friendship that has become awkward. I would let the dust settle a while and focus on finding a better friend
Reply 2
the fact that your friend is in a relationship with the guy shows that kissing a guy you were talking to wasn't just a lapse in judgment while she was drunk. though it can be hard because of good history, i think you should let that friendship go. the best step moving forward is to forget the whole thing and move on, hang out with other friends and just ignore any drama that could come out of this.
Reply 3
Bros before hoes. I assume it works the other way round too? Agree with the above posters, your friend is in the wrong and they're obviously concocting some kind of storyline where you're the antagonist, so leave them to it. If she reaches out to you in future to rekindle the friendship then your call on whether to hang out again but for now, I don't think it's worth your hassle.
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