feeling like i need to be with someone
being in a relationship is always bad for me, i get all flowery and sometimes it brings out the worse in me in different ways (depending on person) so rn im not w/ anyone but i cant help but want to say yes when someone asks me out. i know im not in the right state to be in a relationship and it only rlly brings pain but i know ill say yes when someone asks me out and so now ive just been avoiding that. how do i get myself to start saying no and actually feeling better when not in a relationship when asked???
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Focus on self care and whats best for you trust me you will know when you found your match don’t rush love
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Original post by Anonymous
being in a relationship is always bad for me, i get all flowery and sometimes it brings out the worse in me in different ways (depending on person) so rn im not w/ anyone but i cant help but want to say yes when someone asks me out. i know im not in the right state to be in a relationship and it only rlly brings pain but i know ill say yes when someone asks me out and so now ive just been avoiding that. how do i get myself to start saying no and actually feeling better when not in a relationship when asked???
You gotta listen to both your heart and your mind, but If you ever wanna talk I'm here for ya bro
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
being in a relationship is always bad for me, i get all flowery and sometimes it brings out the worse in me in different ways (depending on person) so rn im not w/ anyone but i cant help but want to say yes when someone asks me out. i know im not in the right state to be in a relationship and it only rlly brings pain but i know ill say yes when someone asks me out and so now ive just been avoiding that. how do i get myself to start saying no and actually feeling better when not in a relationship when asked???
Jump into a hobby. Can be an existing one or something new, but grab a hobby and throw yourself into it. Straight up, make it so that you have no time for relationships, and that when someone asks you out you think and you realise you would have no way to accommodate them on such a busy schedule. Kind of messy but tbh it sounds like you need an immediate fix.
TLDR: Adjust your schedule so that you'll never have time for a relationship.
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